One thing that I love to do is to look at houses… I love seeing layouts of homes, looking at home pictures as people post their houses for sale online, real estate sites, design, decor, from the outside in… It’s just such a fun thing for me!
Recently we were invited to the home of some friends of ours, whose home we’d never been to before. I loved the set up they had outside with such a great entertaining space, but of course I was curious what the rest of the house looked like as well. I think I may have asked a question of what a space was used for or something and maybe she could tell how interested and curious I was, so she asked if I’d like to see the house. Well, of course, that was a “yes”, so she gave me a quick tour. I just love to see how different families create a sense of “home” with the spaces that they have. I love that this family, in particular, regularly opens up their home to guests and create such an inviting atmosphere of fellowship and generosity with friends, family, and pretty much anyone they meet. It’s beautiful.
Sometimes I get the idea that things like decorating and design aren’t really necessities in life, even though they are things that I really enjoy and feel a great love for. Some of my favorite Instagram accounts to follow are decorating and design accounts. No, I don’t have the budget to purchase new things for my home on a regular basis or to do many of the ideas that I see on those accounts, but I still just love to see them – how they are creating such warm, inviting homes… places of comfort for their families. I just love it! And it does give me ideas! I think I have a list of ideas always running in my head of things I’d like to do in my home to make it a little more functional, a little prettier, or a little more cozy.
I want it to be a space that functions well for us as we play, home school. prepare and eat meals, and even have guests over from time to time. Sure, I’d love to have a free budget and space to decorate however I want to, to make the space truly display my favorite design styles. But for now, it’s using what we have – our very limited budget, to create the atmosphere of home that will benefit us now. Most of the ideas I have are quite simple – to repaint this piece of furniture, hang something on that wall, or organize this closet to function for a us a little better. Sometimes it’s just a matter of thinking about our things a little bit differently, and I can use the things we already have in a new way to bring life to an area. I just love doing that, even though it seems that my project list sometimes never ends.
So the more I think about this, the more I’m convinced that these are definitely not bad things… and perhaps, they ARE very important. You see, I am a homemaker. And you, you who are reading this – if you have a home, you can be a homemaker too. No matter what your current “work” or “vocation” is, you too, can create an atmosphere of “home” for your family and guests to come back to each day and relax, and to be restored.
“Home is a place where we can serve, love, and encourage within the safe walls that contain the secrets, fears, dreams, life work, and love that knit the hearts of our family together.” -Sally Clarkson
Have you ever heard of a Commonplace Book? It’s a book that often accompanies one that you are reading, where you write down the thoughts that strike you or speak to you. I’ve done this before, actually, but I didn’t know that there was a name for this type of thing, and mine has never been organized into one particular book- but rather a scrap piece of paper or sheet from my planner. However, I love the idea, and sometimes as I’m reading – something inspires me and I want to ponder the topic even further. It’s actually how this very blog post came about. I was inspired in my thinking and to write to you. My inspiration today is from the book, “The Life-Giving Home” by Sally and Sarah Clarkson. So I want to insert a few quotes or paraphrased quotes from this book to hopefully inspire you too in this idea, as I introduce to you one of the newest features on My Purposeful Planning…
Jesus gives us a great example and model for serving our families when we think about that last meal that he prepared for his disciples before his death. Just think about how he probably hired the best chef in town to prepare that feast of succulent roasted lamb and the best wine. Even though he must’ve been so weary just thinking about what he was about to endure, he served graciously. He intentionally took things even a step further as he knelt down to wash each of their feet. He spoke to them his most life-giving words as he taught them the greatest principles he wanted them to know before he left them…
Always His heart and words were focused on His beloved band of friends. Always He was thinking of how to prepare them, to strengthen them. Not even in His death did He focus on His own needs.
Home is one of the places of refuge that many in our world have not valued or known in a personal way. There is no prepared place where they can come expecting to find solace, welcome, comfort, acceptance, truth, and ease. But I am determined that those I love will have such a place. And so, following Jesus’ model of service and hospitality, I choose to prepare for and serve those who share my home and those who enter my doors.
It is the giving rhythms of home that provide the right atmosphere for passing on the essential heart attitudes and warm relationships in life. I reach hearts by cooking meals, by washing sheets and fluffing pillows, by reading a favorite book one more time even though I have it memorized. I do it when I clean and decorate a space to make it beautiful and comfortable and inviting. I do it when I choose to respond graciously to a question. Both literally and metaphorically, in my home I have the privilege of washing feet every day.
Service begins with serving those who are closest to us, making home the very best place to be.
I hope you have been inspired by these words from Sally, just as I have, and I hope you enjoy my blog’s newest feature. We can be homemakers and we can serve our families well. We can start today.
Let’s make a plan to be more purposeful.