My Monthly Goals

After reviewing my yearly goals, here is an update for October and a preview of the things I will be working on for the month of November…

I like to share my Monthly Goals with you here because it holds me accountable for one, and also I just hope that it can inspire you in some way to create goals of your own and find something that you can be working on. I believe that to be purposeful and intentional, we have to make an effort to do so. I like to make a plan of how I will accomplish certain goals, and I’ve found it to be really helpful for me. Your plans may not be as detailed as mine, and that’s perfectly okay. I’ve been doing this for quite some time now. Just start somewhere with something, and make a plan to be more purposeful. You’ll be glad you did!

Spiritual Goals:

This month I am studying, writing out, and praying God’s promises. I’m not following any specific guide or anything, but I might possible compile them all for a project later on. We’ll see!

Mothering/Family Goals:

  • Football season with Lawson – We ended our regular season undefeated, so we will be advancing to the playoffs this month.
  • Bi-weekly trips to the Library with my kids (They have been choosing to go spend time with Dad at work instead of going with me on my shopping days so this hasn’t happened like we planned.)
  • Linkin has a special goal he is working towards for a prize.. (Linkin met his goal and picked out two small monster trucks as his prize. Go Linkin!)
  • Lawson also completed one of his reading charts and got to pick out a small prize as well this month!
  • This month, I’d like to take the kids to the local children’s museum a few times. We need to use our membership there before life gets crazy with a new baby in the family. There are some Thanksgiving-Themed story times that I think will be great to go to.
  • We’ve also got some Christmas-prep type activities that I’d like to finish up with them this month.

Homeschooling Goals:

I might be reaching a point of home school burnout for this semester, but we’ve been chugging along still. It’s very possible that it’s pregnancy-related, and I’m just tired. I started doing what we’re calling “Math Drills” with Lawson where I give him a worksheet with addition or subtraction facts and time him to see how fast he can answer them. This is to replace our “Flashcard Drills”, and he likes it so much better because it’s a challenge for him to be competitive with himself and his timed scores, even though the problems are always different. I remember doing this in school with multiplication facts, and it was helpful to learn the facts the more I did them. Lawson will also be working on his first Reading Fair project this month.

Linkin is still doing the “You Can Read Sight Words” curriculum, and he loves the hands-on approach. We used one of my erasable, friXion highlighters and read through one of our books to find all of his current sight words in it, and he really enjoyed this activity. We are also still doing the Raising Rockstars Program as well, and his favorite part of this one is singing the song of the week. He loves music!

Layten is continuing with her Tot School Printables. We are currently learning letter “Jj”, and I’m impressed that she’s really learning things… especially the things that we repeat from week to week like colors and shapes. She can name several of them, and she does really well matching things up one-to-one so this has been a great way for her to learn – whether it’s using felt shapes with her shapes page or printing off two copies of her pages for her to match up. She loves to do school!

For more on our Homeschooling… you can visit our Homeschool Page. 

My Personal Goals:

Blogging –

This has been such a fun few months for me with blogging. Although, I haven’t been putting out a ton of posts, I’ve been doing lots of working and writing and learning behind the scenes for some future things. I did do a Vision Quest Email Series this month, so that was exciting for me since it was my very first series to send out solely by email. This month I hope to be sharing with you some Christmas-Themed Posts as well as some Baby-Related Posts as we are in our final month of counting down this pregnancy.

Home Organization –

(Kids’ Clothes)

As you know from my How to Put Together a Kids’ Capsule Wardrobe Post, I went through all the kids’ clothes in September to figure out exactly what we needed for Fall and Winter. Since doing that, I found another box in storage of really nice clothes for Linkin that we had missed, Lawson was given a big bag of hand-me-down clothes and had a grandparent purchase him some nice things as well, and Layten was gifted clothes for her birthday. We are for sure, all-set now! What a blessing!

(Baby Items)

Since we don’t know the gender of our baby coming in December, I used our last Home school Break Week to sort through all of our newborn things for both genders together to see what we have and what we still need. It’s funny that I put those baby things away in storage and then took them out to find that some of them were really stained. I learned that baby stains are different than other stains, as they have enzymes in them that are especially hard to remove. But alas, I did find the perfect solution that got 98% of the baby stains out that I will share with you this month. It was so much fun to sort though all of those little clothes and get excited about another baby that will get to wear them.

This month I need to do a little more baby-prep… Here’s what’s on my list:
  • Decide if we will stick with our current pediatrician or switch to a new one.
  • Get an infant carrier and install it towards the end of the month.
  • Decide if there are any other big baby-items we would like to get besides the crib and car seat.
    (Swing, Bouncer, Play Gym, etc.)
  • Prepare some freezer meals to make the postpartum adjustment period a little easier.
  • Prepare a Lactation Cookie Dough Recipe to freeze for later use.
  • Raise the crib mattress, and make up with bedding.
  • Register at the hospital.
  • Purchase accessories needed for nursing.
  • Check breast pump and sterilize its parts.
  • Print my birth plan, though I doubt I will even need it (especially if this labor is faster than the last one).
  • Set up the diaper changing area.
  • Pack hospital bags.

Marriage Goals:

  • Weekly Budget Meetings as a Couple to keep us on Track with our Goals (Sometimes these happen through text messaging, but we try to stay on track and keep each other updated.) These will definitely continue. It’s going to be a super-tight month as we finish up Christmas prep, prepare for baby, and do some traveling this month. We will definitely have to prioritize financial things this month.
  • Go out on a date. We haven’t gone out on an actual date since early September so it’s definitely needed this month, especially before baby comes.

Health & Fitness Goals:

This goal has definitely been put on the back-burner for now. I’d hoped to be able to work out throughout my entire pregnancy, but I have given myself lots of grace this past month. It’s mostly a mental thing, and not so much a physical thing. As much as I love CrossFit and don’t mind modifying things, having to modify literally everything is annoying. There are so many things I’m not allowed to do during pregnancy and so many lifts that I’ve had to decrease weight on so that my form wouldn’t suffer too much. So while I physically am just not allowed to do certain things, it was the mental aspect that got me. Don’t worry… as soon as I’m able to ease back into it, I’m so excited to do so. 2019, I’m coming for you!

Financial Goals:

  • Continue in the grocery store & drugstore game for saving money with our food, toiletries, & household purchases. We’ve been stocking up extra on things like toilet paper, cleaning products, and now diapers so that we won’t have to rush out and get those things when the baby comes. Nobody wants to have to venture out with a newborn.
  • Prepare for Christmas. I am proud to say that we are “almost” done! All that we’ll have left to get is what Justin and I will get for each other, if we’re able, and stocking stuffers. Everything else is done, and just needs to be wrapped.

What goals will you be working on this month?

If you’re just starting out, you can read my series on My Purposeful Planning. Choose one goal to start working on, learn how to reach that one goal, and I think doing this will only lead you to want to achieve more.

Whatever you do, let’s go make a plan to be more purposeful!

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