36-Week Bumpdate & Baby-Prep Checklist

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Current Pregnancy Stats…

How far along: 36 Weeks, 2 Days

Countdown: 5 days until we’re considered “Full Term” / 27 days until due date / 41 days max until the 42 week deadline
(I usually carry my babies later than my due date so I’m mentally preparing for that.)

Size of Baby: Last Ultrasound Baby Measured over 5lbs! Baby is the size of a Honeydew Melon this week.

My Body Changes: I was told at church yesterday that it looks like baby has “dropped”. Of course, I’ve never been able to notice this feeling myself in any of my pregnancies. I know that in my pregnancy with Linkin and Layten, I carried them both so low the entire time that there was literally no where for them to drop down to. I haven’t felt that way with this pregnancy, but I also don’t feel any recent differences either so I don’t know.

I’ve also had noticeable Braxton Hicks contractions this week, which I’ll have to admit just excites me very much.

Must Have Items: I’ve now reached the point of my pregnancy where I have “Purse Tums” and “Night Stand Tums”.

Sleep: With the exception of the heartburn, I am actually sleeping pretty great lately. I think I’ve mastered the pillow situation, and some nights I can even sleep all the way through without having to get up to use the bathroom!

Cravings: I’ve been really into hearty soups lately, and I’ve also really enjoyed mashed potatoes this pregnancy. This is definitely a Barrett baby, because that’s what Justin’s mom craved during her pregnancy with him.

Baby Movement: Baby’s movements are getting bigger and stronger now, and my whole belly moves sometimes. Baby also gets hiccups at least once a day now.

Gender: Since this is baby #4 for us and we already have both genders and clothes for both, we opted to not find out the gender of this baby until it’s born. Yes, I’m tired of saying “it” or “the baby”, but we’ll be able to call it by name soon enough. 😉 We really don’t have a preference for either one this time, and we just think it will be fun to be surprised!

Names: We do have a name picked out for both genders, which we are keeping a secret until after baby is born. Both names do start with letter “L” though, of course, and they are unique in that we don’t know anyone personally who has these names, but we didn’t just make up names either. We can’t wait to call our baby by name and share this with you!

Challenges this Week: This week I stepped on a Paw Patrol pup, and something happened. I felt a shift, and it felt like something broke or got misplaced internally. I literally felt sore and uncomfortable for the rest of the day any time I walked, lifted my leg to get dressed, or got up or down. I messaged my chiropractor before I went to bed, and she gave me an exercise to try. I felt a pop, and I was able to have a good night’s sleep. I woke up feeling MUCH better. Pregnancy is weird sometimes. I’ll be sure to have my kids pick up their toys a little better. 😉

Best Moment of the Week: I love how excited our older kids are about this baby. Lawson (age 6) is one who’s always hugging my belly and saying hi or bye the baby when he leaves. He also often prays for the baby at bedtime. Linkin (age 4) prays for the baby as well sometimes as well as for my tummy and back to feel good. Layten (age 2), although we don’t really know if she understands what’s about to happen, she sure talks like she does. The best moment was this week when she wanted to talk to the baby. She talked to my belly and said, “Hey, baby. I Dayten! I’m the baby girl! Bye, baby.” It’s almost like she was claiming her girl territory just in case this baby is also a girl. It was pretty funny.

Nursery Progress: We are not doing a nursery for this baby, but here’s how we’ve decided to work this out. All three of our children share one bedroom. Our two boys share a full-size bed, and our daughter has her own twin size bed. Our second bedroom is used as a playroom… but this is where we’ll keep the baby’s things mostly. We’re going to set up a changing station in that room for the baby, the baby’s clothes will be stored in that closet, and there’s a comfy rocking chair in there for night nursing sessions so that we don’t wake the others in the house. The mini crib is in our master bedroom currently.

Things I Miss: I miss working out. There have been days where I just have the urge to go in and lift some weights, but I also know all of the aches and pains I’ve felt recently due to the Relaxin hormone and just things shifting and changing and how just the simplest things have hurt me… so I’m playing it safe right now.

Fears: I’ll have to admit that I’m a little afraid about how big this baby will be. Baby measured over five pounds at my last ultrasound, and I calculated that if baby grows half a pound a week for the remaining six weeks, that it will be over eight pounds. I know that eight pounds isn’t really THAT large, but Layten was over eight pounds when she was born, and I just know the difference of how much more difficult her delivery was from delivering Linkin who was only seven pounds. I also know that I usually carry my babies later than my due date, so I’m a little worried about this one being too big for me to deliver naturally. I’m trying to just think positive and not worry too much about it, but it’s just something I keep thinking about.

Eats: I’m hungry all the time now, and I’m open to anyone cooking for me or taking me out to eat in this final month. ;-D

Baby-Prep Checklist

By now, if you’ve been following me for any length of time, you know that I’m a planner and a goal-getter. I’m especially good at this when I have a clearly defined deadline in sight, and a baby’s due date is the perfect opportunity to get on the ball and get some things done!

I planned our Homeschool terms to accomodate our baby’s due date. We started our school year in July so we could take a good, long break in December when our new baby comes. I also finished our Christmas shopping super early so I wouldn’t have to worry with all of that while I’m home with a newborn. It’s great to have a good deadline to work towards.

Because I’m a little nerdy, and not ashamed to admit it, I researched on Pinterest what items a baby needs just for the sake of list-making. For the most part, I already know what we need and like to have for a baby, and what’s not really necessary. This comes from having three children already, BUT I’ve also done lots of minimalizing and purging since having our last baby, and I wanted to make sure we had enough of everything for this baby. I’m determined to think minimally when it comes to this baby, because I know I have a big hoarding tendency – especially when it comes to all these sweet baby things!

Since we don’t know the gender of this baby, it’s hard to know exactly what we need, but here’s what I did…

I took all of our baby clothes that we had in storage and separated them by size and gender.
I took out all of the Newborn size for both genders and washed them up in that good-smelling baby detergent. In the past, I would’ve washed and organized ALL the clothes that I could possibly fit in baby’s dresser and several month’s worth, but since we don’t know the gender yet – I only did this with the Newborn clothes this time to keep things to a minimum.
I labelled the other storage boxes properly, and I do have easy access to the 0-3 month clothes in both genders so that I can easily wash those after we get home with baby and as we start to need them.

So here’s the list I found and adapted of what’s needed for baby…

  • Infant Carseat (We were given one, though I’m keeping my eye out for one that’s more gender-neutral.)
  • Crib (We still have our mini-crib and sheets from our last baby.)
  • Dresser/Changing Table (Check.)
  • Special Gender-Neutral Coming Home Outfit (I ordered one I’ve been eyeing for a while. It’s so soft and sweet.)
  • 10 Bodysuits (We have 11 for girl & 10 for boy.)
  • 4-6 Outfit Sets (We have 3 for girl & 2 for boy.)
  • 5 Bottoms (We have 5 for girl & 6 for boy.)
  • 7 Sleepers (We have 7 for girl & 4 for boy.)
  • 2 Swaddler Blankets (We have 3 for girl, 1 for boy, & 3 gender-neutral.)
  • 2 Sleep Sacks (We have 1 gender-neutral.)
  • 10 Wash Cloths (I don’t know why you’d ever need 10 wash cloths, but we have plenty for both genders.)
  • 3 Hooded Towels (We have hooded towels for girl, but I need to get some for boy or gender-neutral.)
  • 8 Bibs (We have 2 for girl & 1 for boy. (Gender-neutral bibs are in my Amazon cart.)
  • 8 Burp Cloths (We have 3 for girl. Gender-neutral burp cloths are in my Amazon cart.)
  • 2 Hats (We have 5 for girl & 7 for boy. I love little hats on a newborn.)
  • 6 Sock Pairs (We have 8 girl & 10 for boy.)
  • Newborn Diapers – 1 Box or 148 total (We have 64.)
  • Size 1 Diapers – 3 Boxes or 648 total (We have 478.)
  • Size 2 Diapers – 3 Boxes or 558 total (We have 651.)
  • Size 3 Diapers – 4 Boxes or 900 total (We have 244.)
  • Wipes (We have lots of diapers and wipes from our surprise shower…What a huge blessing!)
  • Diaper Rash Cream (My favorite is in my Amazon cart.)
  • Baby Shampoo (We have a few bottles already that were given to us.)
  • 1 Diaper Bag (We’ll be using the same one I used with Layten because I loved it’s organization.)
  • 1 Boppy Pillow (Check. We also have a few different boy and girl covers that are washed and ready to go.)
  • 1 Rock n Play (I’m on the lookout for one of these, but I know it’s also not completely necessary since we have a crib.)
  • 2-3 Pacis (I will be purchasing a few Pat Pats and Cutie Clips from Ryan and Rose.)
  • Hamper or Basket for Baby Laundry (I’m on the lookout, but I could easily just use a basket we already have too.)
  • Baby Play Gym (I ordered this one, and I’m so excited about it.)
  • Swing or Bouncer (We don’t have either of these, but I’m still trying to decide if we really even need them or not.)
  • Stroller (I have a double-umbrella stroller that will work when they get older. I prefer a baby carrier when they are small.)
  • Baby Carrier (I have a Baby K’Tan for the newborn stage and a Tula for as they get a little bigger.)
  • Breast Pump & Accessories (I debated ordering a new pump all together, but I think I’m just going to order a new accessory kit to go with my current one.)
  • 4-6 Bottles (We have way more than this. It really shows me how much a hoarder I’ve been in the past. I think I will use them mostly for freezing milk though since I have so many instead of purchasing the milk storage bags.)
  • Bottle Brush (It’s on my list.)
  • Nursing Pads (I have some washable ones.)
  • Nursing Bras (I do have some, but I will be purchasing more.)
  • Pajamas for Mom at Hospital (I have a nice nursing gown and robe, but I will probably buy a pants set too.)
  • Robe for Mom at Hospital (I want to get a nice robe that will match with everything.)
  • Slippers for Mom at Hospital (It’s on my list.)
  • Toiletries for Mom & Dad to Pack & Keep in Hospital Bag (It’s on the list.)
  • Is there anything missing from my list that you think we’ll need? Let me know in the comments of this post!

And here’s what’s on my personal Baby-Prep Task List…

  • Purchase any of the priority things we still need from my list above
  • Print my birth plan
  • Register at the hospital
  • Prep some Freezer meals (dinners, easy grab-n-go breakfasts for the kids, & lactation cookie dough)
  • Sterilize Pacis, Bottles, & Breast pump parts
  • Select & confirm new pediatrician
  • Set up changing station
  • Pack Mom, Dad, and Baby’s hospital bag.
  • Install car seat. (This would be a great time to also clean out my car really good. It’s a “mom car”.)
  • Plan for a housekeeper to come and do a good deep cleaning
  • Plan a final date night (kid-free)

Anytime I’m working on a big project or getting ready for something big… I like to start with the big picture and work my way down to all those tiny details. I’m very detail-oriented so I love this type of thing. I love creating a system so that I don’t forget anything that’s really important. It really helps me to make sure that I have enough time to get everything down and money in the budget to afford the things we need as well.
Step One: Research what’s needed, what needs to be done, etc.
Step Two: Adapt the list or research that I find to suit my needs and make my own list(s) from it.
Step Three: Plug these tasks into my planner and add the needed items to my various shopping lists. (Amazon and Wunderlist for things I’d rather buy in-store.)

So that’s what I’ve done. This past week, I did a few things like Order the Baby’s Coming Home Outfit, Raised the Crib Mattress, and purchased a couple nursing bras. I also grabbed a few extra things during my grocery shopping trip that will hopefully keep us stocked for a while after baby comes so we won’t have to rush out to get those at any point… pull-ups for our toddler, paper towels, etc.

Next week I’ll make sure to print my birth plan, purchase the needed toiletries and items for the hospital, pack our hospital bags, and install the infant car seat.

See how that works? Like a charm hopefully! Help me to know if there’s something I might’ve missed… because “Baby Brain” is a real thing. 😉 

My Monthly Goals

After reviewing my yearly goals, here is an update for October and a preview of the things I will be working on for the month of November…

I like to share my Monthly Goals with you here because it holds me accountable for one, and also I just hope that it can inspire you in some way to create goals of your own and find something that you can be working on. I believe that to be purposeful and intentional, we have to make an effort to do so. I like to make a plan of how I will accomplish certain goals, and I’ve found it to be really helpful for me. Your plans may not be as detailed as mine, and that’s perfectly okay. I’ve been doing this for quite some time now. Just start somewhere with something, and make a plan to be more purposeful. You’ll be glad you did!

Spiritual Goals:

This month I am studying, writing out, and praying God’s promises. I’m not following any specific guide or anything, but I might possible compile them all for a project later on. We’ll see!

Mothering/Family Goals:

  • Football season with Lawson – We ended our regular season undefeated, so we will be advancing to the playoffs this month.
  • Bi-weekly trips to the Library with my kids (They have been choosing to go spend time with Dad at work instead of going with me on my shopping days so this hasn’t happened like we planned.)
  • Linkin has a special goal he is working towards for a prize.. (Linkin met his goal and picked out two small monster trucks as his prize. Go Linkin!)
  • Lawson also completed one of his reading charts and got to pick out a small prize as well this month!
  • This month, I’d like to take the kids to the local children’s museum a few times. We need to use our membership there before life gets crazy with a new baby in the family. There are some Thanksgiving-Themed story times that I think will be great to go to.
  • We’ve also got some Christmas-prep type activities that I’d like to finish up with them this month.

Homeschooling Goals:

I might be reaching a point of home school burnout for this semester, but we’ve been chugging along still. It’s very possible that it’s pregnancy-related, and I’m just tired. I started doing what we’re calling “Math Drills” with Lawson where I give him a worksheet with addition or subtraction facts and time him to see how fast he can answer them. This is to replace our “Flashcard Drills”, and he likes it so much better because it’s a challenge for him to be competitive with himself and his timed scores, even though the problems are always different. I remember doing this in school with multiplication facts, and it was helpful to learn the facts the more I did them. Lawson will also be working on his first Reading Fair project this month.

Linkin is still doing the “You Can Read Sight Words” curriculum, and he loves the hands-on approach. We used one of my erasable, friXion highlighters and read through one of our books to find all of his current sight words in it, and he really enjoyed this activity. We are also still doing the Raising Rockstars Program as well, and his favorite part of this one is singing the song of the week. He loves music!

Layten is continuing with her Tot School Printables. We are currently learning letter “Jj”, and I’m impressed that she’s really learning things… especially the things that we repeat from week to week like colors and shapes. She can name several of them, and she does really well matching things up one-to-one so this has been a great way for her to learn – whether it’s using felt shapes with her shapes page or printing off two copies of her pages for her to match up. She loves to do school!

For more on our Homeschooling… you can visit our Homeschool Page. 

My Personal Goals:

Blogging –

This has been such a fun few months for me with blogging. Although, I haven’t been putting out a ton of posts, I’ve been doing lots of working and writing and learning behind the scenes for some future things. I did do a Vision Quest Email Series this month, so that was exciting for me since it was my very first series to send out solely by email. This month I hope to be sharing with you some Christmas-Themed Posts as well as some Baby-Related Posts as we are in our final month of counting down this pregnancy.

Home Organization –

(Kids’ Clothes)

As you know from my How to Put Together a Kids’ Capsule Wardrobe Post, I went through all the kids’ clothes in September to figure out exactly what we needed for Fall and Winter. Since doing that, I found another box in storage of really nice clothes for Linkin that we had missed, Lawson was given a big bag of hand-me-down clothes and had a grandparent purchase him some nice things as well, and Layten was gifted clothes for her birthday. We are for sure, all-set now! What a blessing!

(Baby Items)

Since we don’t know the gender of our baby coming in December, I used our last Home school Break Week to sort through all of our newborn things for both genders together to see what we have and what we still need. It’s funny that I put those baby things away in storage and then took them out to find that some of them were really stained. I learned that baby stains are different than other stains, as they have enzymes in them that are especially hard to remove. But alas, I did find the perfect solution that got 98% of the baby stains out that I will share with you this month. It was so much fun to sort though all of those little clothes and get excited about another baby that will get to wear them.

This month I need to do a little more baby-prep… Here’s what’s on my list:
  • Decide if we will stick with our current pediatrician or switch to a new one.
  • Get an infant carrier and install it towards the end of the month.
  • Decide if there are any other big baby-items we would like to get besides the crib and car seat.
    (Swing, Bouncer, Play Gym, etc.)
  • Prepare some freezer meals to make the postpartum adjustment period a little easier.
  • Prepare a Lactation Cookie Dough Recipe to freeze for later use.
  • Raise the crib mattress, and make up with bedding.
  • Register at the hospital.
  • Purchase accessories needed for nursing.
  • Check breast pump and sterilize its parts.
  • Print my birth plan, though I doubt I will even need it (especially if this labor is faster than the last one).
  • Set up the diaper changing area.
  • Pack hospital bags.

Marriage Goals:

  • Weekly Budget Meetings as a Couple to keep us on Track with our Goals (Sometimes these happen through text messaging, but we try to stay on track and keep each other updated.) These will definitely continue. It’s going to be a super-tight month as we finish up Christmas prep, prepare for baby, and do some traveling this month. We will definitely have to prioritize financial things this month.
  • Go out on a date. We haven’t gone out on an actual date since early September so it’s definitely needed this month, especially before baby comes.

Health & Fitness Goals:

This goal has definitely been put on the back-burner for now. I’d hoped to be able to work out throughout my entire pregnancy, but I have given myself lots of grace this past month. It’s mostly a mental thing, and not so much a physical thing. As much as I love CrossFit and don’t mind modifying things, having to modify literally everything is annoying. There are so many things I’m not allowed to do during pregnancy and so many lifts that I’ve had to decrease weight on so that my form wouldn’t suffer too much. So while I physically am just not allowed to do certain things, it was the mental aspect that got me. Don’t worry… as soon as I’m able to ease back into it, I’m so excited to do so. 2019, I’m coming for you!

Financial Goals:

  • Continue in the grocery store & drugstore game for saving money with our food, toiletries, & household purchases. We’ve been stocking up extra on things like toilet paper, cleaning products, and now diapers so that we won’t have to rush out and get those things when the baby comes. Nobody wants to have to venture out with a newborn.
  • Prepare for Christmas. I am proud to say that we are “almost” done! All that we’ll have left to get is what Justin and I will get for each other, if we’re able, and stocking stuffers. Everything else is done, and just needs to be wrapped.

What goals will you be working on this month?

If you’re just starting out, you can read my series on My Purposeful Planning. Choose one goal to start working on, learn how to reach that one goal, and I think doing this will only lead you to want to achieve more.

Whatever you do, let’s go make a plan to be more purposeful!

My Monthly Goals

After reviewing my yearly goals, here is an update for September and a preview of the things I will be working on for the month of October…

I like to share my Monthly Goals with you here because it holds me accountable for one, and also I just hope that it can inspire you in some way to create goals of your own and find something that you can be working on. I believe that to be purposeful and intentional, we have to sometimes make an effort to do so. I like to make a plan of how I will accomplish certain goals, and I’ve found it to be really helpful for me. Your plans may not be as detailed as mine, and that’s perfectly okay. I’ve been doing this for quite some time now. Just start somewhere with something, and make a plan to be more purposeful. You’ll be glad you did!

Spiritual Goals:

Continue reading the One Year Bible & praying strategically

Mothering/Family Goals:

  • Football season with Lawson.
  • Bi-weekly trips to the Library with my kids
  • Linkin has a special goal he is working towards for a prize, but I won’t share it here. (He’s almost finished!)

The boys also asked how they could earn some extra money so that they can buy things they want when we go shopping, so I considered this. We don’t give a regular allowance for chores that are expected of all of our family members, so this would have to be something extra. I did come up with a few extra things that I would pay them to do. Lawson took me up on this twice, but since then nothing. I’ve offered it to Linkin too, but he really would rather not do extra work, so there ya go. 😉

Homeschooling Goals:

This month I started grading some of Lawson’s work to help me to better track his progress and to also make sure that things like handwriting and spelling actually get done correctly. I don’t know the correct way to teach this, other than to have him “fix” the mistakes so he doesn’t continue to make the same ones over and over. I introduced the “You Can Read Sight Words” curriculum to Linkin to test out. It’s a more hands-on approach, so I think we may either switch over completely or at least add in some of these activities each week. Layten is continuing with her Tot School Printables. For more on our Homeschooling… you can visit our Homeschool Page. 

My Personal Goals:

Blogging –


I’ve got several small goals that I’m working on currently with this blog, and it’s all just kind of a big learning process for me. I actually merged my blog to a whole new hosting site this month, and you may have noticed my new newsletter feature. I’m trying to work at it at least a little each day and hopefully, I’ll get even better at consistency and gain some momentum. It’s all part of the bigger goal and vision that I have, but I’m just working through one thing at a time. Thank you for your patience with me and support!

Home Organization –

(Kids’ Clothes)

I went through all of the kids’ clothes storage this past month to see what we have/what we needed for the upcoming Fall/Winter season. Turns out, we have plenty for them from all of the hand-me-downs we’ve been given, and it wasn’t necessary for me to take a shopping trip to the kids’ consignment sale this year.

(Desk Solution)

I didn’t purchase a new desk, but I did reorganize all of my office, home school, and planning supplies into bins on a 4-cubby shelf that I moved into the dining room. I purchased two chalkboards that we can use for school or our memory work. I can use the dining table as my “work surface”, and I just have to put everything away when I’m done. It’s working well for now, because everything has a place.

(Baby Items)

This month I will be going through all of the baby boxes we have. Since we don’t know the gender of our baby coming in December, I will get all of our newborn things for both genders together to see what we have and what we still need. We’ve got 10 weeks left, but I’m working on this mostly during our home school break week.

Marriage Goals:

  • Weekly Budget Meetings as a Couple to keep us on Track with our Goals (Sometimes these happen through text messaging, but we try to stay on track and keep each other updated.)
  • Weekly Quality Time Together at home (This one has been hard to come by because our kids are so needy and demanding *insert chuckle*. We have movies we’ve started but not finished. We’ve got to get better at this one.)
  • At Least One Date Night This Month – We had an at-home date night this past month with take-out sushi, Ben & Jerry’s ice cream, and a movie.

Health & Fitness Goals:

Health, Smealth! I’m kidding, but this has been a FULL month so it has not been something I’ve been able to prioritize as much. I had several deadlines and things that needed to be completed so I didn’t prioritize making it to the gym to workout as much. I still made it about once-twice/week but it’s definitely not where I was used to.

Financial Goals:

  • Continue in the grocery store & drugstore game for saving money with our food, toiletries, & household purchases.
  • I know I’ve mentioned sinking funds here before. We have tried for two months and four pay periods to make them work for us, but so far, we haven’t had much success in that area. I’ve had to cut some lines from our budget, and of course the sinking funds/planning ahead were the first to go, unfortunately. Maybe one day we will get it. It doesn’t mean we aren’t trying.
  • Prepare for Christmas. (Baby coming in December – I’ve gotta get on it!) I purchased a few gifts this past month, including one for our children, collectively, and I’ve been working on solidifying their Christmas lists with the things they tell me. I’d like to purchase or make a few more gifts this month.

What goals will you be working on this month?

If you’re just starting out, you can read my series on My Purposeful Planning. Choose one goal to start working on, learn how to reach that one goal, and I think doing this will only lead you to want to achieve more.

Whatever you do, let’s go make a plan to be more purposeful! 

Our Family I.D.

This Summer, Justin and I led a small group at our church called Family I.D., and it was phenomenal! I’ve been wanting to share with you the things that God gave us for our family through doing this small group…. Our Core Values, Our Vision Statement, our Mission Statement, and our Family Slogan.

We weren’t sure how this small group would go. There were a lot of hands-on activities that required each family represented to do some “homework”. We didn’t know if it was something they would grasp ahold of and actually take the time to do or not. To be honest, we weren’t super excited to do the work ourselves. But as the weeks went on, the process became clearer and clearer, and God spoke to each of the families represented in our small group and gave each one a clear Family I.D.

We started by selecting our Family Core Values. You’ve heard my mention these on my blog. The worksheet printable I created for you here at My Purposeful Planning is very similar to the one we used for this small group. We compared our lists with that of our spouse and discussed the similarities and differences in our lists. We took it home and also talked to our children about our lists. We narrowed our lists down to which Core Values we would like to best represent our family.

In no certain order, here are the Core Values our family chose…
Family & Relationships
Humor
Knowing God / Prayer / Worship
Personal Growth / Growth
Teamwork / Unity

At first I thought that “humor” seemed like a silly thing to be included in our core values, but the more I thought about it, the more I loved that it was one that we chose. We want to laugh and be silly with our kids always, and we want to laugh and enjoy having fun with friends, family, and guests when they come to visit our home as well. Laughter and humor are good things. I think the rest of the values we chose are probably self-explanatory.

We added verbs to help solidify these for our family…
Celebrate Family & Relationships.
Embrace Humor.
Prioritize Knowing God, Prayer, & Worship.
Pursue Personal Growth.
Praise Teamwork & Unity.

Next, we worked to write our Family Vision Statement. 
“Having a well-defined vision statement will help ensure that no matter what life brings, no matter where we find ourselves, we can still get our bearings and stay on course.” – Greg Gunn

“Your family vision statement describes where you are going in words that greatly motivate you to take action.”

“Write the vision; make it plain on tablets, so he may run who reads it.” Habakkuk 2:2 ESV

Our Family Vision Statement is… 
“To collectively know who we are in Christ and use each of our unique giftings to fulfill God’s Purpose”

After coming up with our vision statement and knowing the direction we wanted our family to go, we came up with a Family Mission Statement that would help us get there… “We will build solid family relationships that are grounded in God, Growth, and Grace.”

And finally, we came up with a simple slogan that our entire family can easily remember to sum up all of these things… Our Family Slogan is “We’re Grounded!” I’m thinking it’s going to be fun to have shirts made for our kids to wear that tell the world they are grounded… (Pun intended). Of course the Mission Statement will probably be there somewhere on the shirt to, and hopefully we’ll all be able to explain what it means to us, in case people ask.

It’s so important that we aren’t “just winging it” as parents. It’s too important of a responsibility that we’ve been given. Having a vision for WHERE we want our family to end up and then coming up with a mission for HOW we will get there is vital. Think about what you want your kids to be like as adults. How can you start encouraging these things in your children now?

We personally love that this small group and these things have given us the verbage and language we needed to talk to our kids about the things God gave us for our family. It’s given us specific things that we can pray over each member of our family daily, which is really strategic in helping us move forward with the direction God wants our family to go.

If you’d like more information about this particular small group curriculum, here’s a link to the videos we watched in each group session as well as the website with more family resources available.

Have you done something like this for your family? Really pray about this, and take the time to do this with your spouse or partner in parenting. I’d love to know what you come up with!

Whatever you do, Let’s Make a Plan to Be More Purposeful! 

My Monthly Goals for September 2018

After reviewing my yearly goals, here are the things I will be working on for the month of September… 

Spiritual Goals:
Continue in reading the One Year Bible

Mothering/Family Goals:

  • Begin the football season with Lawson.
  • Bi-weekly trips to the Library with my kids
  • Linkin has a special goal he is working towards for a prize, but I won’t share it here.
  • The boys have also asked how they can earn some extra money so that they can buy things they want when we go shopping, so I’m considering this. We don’t give a regular allowance for chores that are expected of all of our family members, so this will have to be something extra.

    Homeschooling Goals:
    We are back to homeschooling, full force now. Layten will continue to work through Tot School Printables Curriculum with me. Linkin with continue to work through Raising Rockstars Preschool with me. Lawson will continue in Language Arts, Math, and Penmanship/Handwriting. We will continue to do Bible Roadtrip as a family. We will especially work this month on establishing a regular “Morning Time” for our memory work and read alouds. We’ve been getting this done, but having a set time for it would greatly benefit us I think.

My Personal Goals:
Reading Plans –
I’m working to get my Hoopla app working so I can listen to audio books from the library. If I can get this to work, my plan is to listen to one or two books this month. I will count this towards my goal of reading 12 books this year.
Home Organization –
(Kids’ Clothes) This month I will be going through all of the kids’ seasonal clothes (and possibly also the baby clothes we have in storage). I’ll make a list of what each child will need to make a simple and minimal Fall/Winter Capsule Wardrobe. There is a Kids’ Consignment at the end of this month I plan to attend and stock up on everything we’ll need. I’m praying that our budget will allow for this because it will be so nice to get all of that shopping done in one day. We currently have all three kids sharing a room with one closet and one dresser, and we plan to keep it to that – especially with a new baby coming.
(Desk Solution) I also have another home organization goal of replacing my large desk in our master bedroom with a smaller (but with more functional vertical storage) version that we can use elsewhere in the house (possibly the living room or dining room). I don’t love the idea of having a desk in the living areas of the house, but I do really benefit from having a desk and a place to keep my planning and blogging supplies… a place to spread out when I need to, but also have a home for everything too. The reason I’m looking to do this, is that we need that space in our room for our baby’s crib in December (except that now it’s currently taking up unnecessary play space in the kids’ play room) so the sooner, the better. This may not happen this month if the budget and time doesn’t allow for it, but the reason I’m thinking about it now is that we only have two more homeschool break weeks before the baby comes, and one of those is Thanksgiving Week – which I’d like to save for our travels and for Christmas decorating.

Marriage Goals:

  • Weekly Budget Meetings as a Couple to keep us on Track with our Goals (Sometimes these happen through text messaging, but we try to stay on track and keep each other updated.)
  • Weekly Quality Time Together at home (This one has been hard to come by because our kids are so needy and demanding *insert chuckle*. We have movies we’ve started but not finished. We’ve got to get better at this one.)
  • At Least One Date Night This Month (We already had a date night this past weekend, actually, so if we have another it would just be a bonus.)

    Health & Fitness Goals:
    Keep doing CrossFit, even if I have to modify and scale everything. Keep meal planning and having healthy meals readily accessible for us.

Financial Goals:

  • Continue in the grocery store & drugstore game for saving money with our food, toiletries, & household purchases.
  • Continue with sinking funds & reaching goals there.
  • Prepare for Christmas. (Baby coming in December – I’ve gotta get on that!) Purchase or make at least one gift this month.

Professional Goals:
Post about our Family’s Core Values, Vision, Mission, and Slogan
Post about our Sinking Funds & Financial Goals
What else would you like to see from me this month?

What goals will you be working on this month? If you’re just starting out, you can read my series on My Purposeful Planning and hopefully be inspired with one thing to begin with and how to reach that one goal, which will only lead you to want to achieve more.

Whatever you do, Let’s go make a plan to be purposeful! 

My Monthly Goals for August 2018: An Update

After reviewing my yearly goals, here are the things I will be worked on for the month of August… 

Spiritual Goals:
I’m finishing up the Seamless Bible Study by Angie Smith with Proverbs 31 Ministries this month, and next week I will begin the Medication study of Psalm 119 provided by Stone Soup for Five. (done)

Mothering/Family Goals:

  • Sign Lawson up for recreational football. (done)
  • Family Trip to the book store for Lawson to pick out his new book as a reward for completing his Summer Reading Passports Program. (We have been doing this at the library instead.) 
  • Family Trip to the Trampoline for Lawson’s second reward for completing his Summer Reading Passports Program. (done)
  • Linkin has a special goal he is working towards for a prize too, but I won’t share it here. He will also benefit from Lawson reaching his goal, of course. (in progress)
  • Linkin will continue working through his Raising Rockstars Preschool with me. (in progress)
  • Layten will continue working through Tot Schools Printables Curriculum with me. (in progress)
  • Things still left on our Summer Bucket List: Float the Creek, Kroc Center, Zoo, S’mores, Aquarium, Campfire, Bike Ride on a Trail, Hiking Adventure, Make pickles, Snow Boogers, and the Trampoline Park (We completed the activities in bold.)

Homeschooling Goals:
After our Break Week, we will be adding in our Language Arts Curriculum on week 1, followed by Botany and Apologetics, which we go through slowly at our own pace. I’ll be posting in more detail about our homeschooling plans soon. (done)

My Personal Goals: Reading Plans
Right now, I don’t know if I can really prioritize this as a goal, but I might try to start a new book if one grabs me. We’ll see. No definite plans as of now for this month. (no plans = done)

Marriage Goals:

  • Weekly Budget Meetings as a Couple to keep us on Track with our Goals (done)
  • Weekly Quality Time Together at home (done)
  • At Least One Date Night This Month (didn’t happen in August, but we’ve already had a date in Sept.)
  • Cheer on Justin as he competes in the first, annual Anchor Games this month. (done)
  • Work together on reaching goals set for opening the new CrossFit gym the first week in September. Exciting! (done) 

    Health & Fitness Goals
    Keep doing CrossFit, even if I have to modify and scale everything. Keep meal planning and having healthy meals readily accessible for me. (in progress)

Financial Goals:

  • Continue in the grocery store & drugstore game for saving money with our food, toiletries, & household purchases. (in progress)
  • Continue with sinking funds & reaching goals there. (We had to use what we’d set aside for “sinking funds” in the month of August. Even though we have a strict, minimalistic budget – our income is still unpredictable. Our plans are to “catch up” with our Sinking Funds plan in September so we can still stay on track and reach our goals.) 
  • Prepare for Christmas. (Baby coming in December – I’ve gotta get on that!) Purchase or make at least one gift this month. Talk with family about holiday plans. (We didn’t have the funds for this in August, but we have been thinking and discussing our plans.) 

Professional Goals:
Post about our Family’s Core Values, Vision, Mission, and Slogan (still on my list)
Post about my Grocery, Drugstore, and Sam’s Shopping Process (done)
Post about our Sinking Funds & Financial Goals (still on my list – bumps in the road have made these posts difficult to write)
Posts about our Homeschool Methods, Curricula, and Goals (done)

Whatever you do, Let’s go make a plan to be purposeful! 

My Monthly Goals for August 2018

After reviewing my yearly goals, here are the things I will be working on for the month of August… 

Spiritual Goals:
I’m finishing up the Seamless Bible Study by Angie Smith with Proverbs 31 Ministries this month, and next week I will begin the Medication study of Psalm 119 provided by Stone Soup for Five.

Mothering/Family Goals:

  • Sign Lawson up for recreational football.
  • Family Trip to the book store for Lawson to pick out his new book as a reward for completing his Summer Reading Passports Program.
  • Family Trip to the Trampoline for Lawson’s second reward for completing his Summer Reading Passports Program.
  • Linkin has a special goal he is working towards for a prize too, but I won’t share it here. He will also benefit from Lawson reaching his goal, of course.
  • Linkin will continue working through his Raising Rockstars Preschool with me.
  • Layten will continue working through Tot Schools Printables Curriculum with me.
  • Things still left on our Summer Bucket List: Float the Creek, Kroc Center, Zoo, S’mores, Aquarium, Campfire, Bike Ride on a Trail, Hiking Adventure, Make pickles, Snow Boogers, and the Trampoline Park (Who knows if we’ll get to all of these – probably not, but we’ll try to get to as many as we can)

Homeschooling Goals: 
We have been doing “light schooling” this past month. We are about 20 days in right now, and we will be completing our “Summer Term” and taking a break week this month. That week will be reserved for field trips and fun things (right about the time when all of the public schoolers go back to school so we’ll have less crowds). We, introverts, plan these things accordingly. 😉

After our Break Week, we will be adding in our Language Arts Curriculum on week 1, followed by Botany and Apologetics, which we go through slowly at our own pace. I’ll be posting in more detail about our homeschooling plans soon.

My Personal Goals: Reading Plans
Right now, I don’t know if I can really prioritize this as a goal, but I might try to start a new book if one grabs me. We’ll see. No definite plans as of now for this month.

Marriage Goals:

  • Weekly Budget Meetings as a Couple to keep us on Track with our Goals
  • Weekly Quality Time Together at home
  • At Least One Date Night This Month
  • Cheer on Justin as he competes in the first, annual Anchor Games this month.
  • Work together on reaching goals set for opening the new CrossFit gym the first week in September. Exciting! 

    Health & Fitness Goals:
    Keep doing CrossFit, even if I have to modify and scale everything. Keep meal planning and having healthy meals readily accessible for me.

Financial Goals:

  • Continue in the grocery store & drugstore game for saving money with our food, toiletries, & household purchases.
  • Continue with sinking funds & reaching goals there.
  • Prepare for Christmas. (Baby coming in December – I’ve gotta get on that!) Purchase or make at least one gift this month. Talk with family about holiday plans.

Professional Goals:
Post about our Family’s Core Values, Vision, Mission, and Slogan
Post about my Grocery, Drugstore, and Sam’s Shopping Process
Post about our Sinking Funds & Financial Goals
Posts about our Homeschool Methods, Curricula, and Goals

What goals will you be working on this month? If you’re just starting out, you can read my series on My Purposeful Planning and hopefully be inspired with one thing to begin with and how to reach that one goal, which will only lead you to want to achieve more.

Whatever you do, Let’s go make a plan to be purposeful! 

My Monthly Goals for July: An Update


After reviewing my yearly goals, here are the things I  worked on for the month of July… 

Spiritual Goals:
I am currently finishing up week six of Proverbs 31 Ministries’ online Bible Study of Seamless by Angie Smith. I missed this small group Bible Study when a group from our campus did it, but I heard it was phenomenal. So, when I got the email that it was going to be available as an online study, I ordered the book and jumped on board! This study has been everything I heard it was and more! I’ve gained so much insight of little tidbits and things that just really came together for me in a new light through this study. I feel like it has even equipped me to be a better Bible teacher to my children as I homeschool them, and for that I’m really excited.

Mothering/Family Goals:

  • Lawson has still been working through his Summer Reading Passports Program and working toward his goals of earning a new book from the book store and a family trip to the Kroc Center. He has worked hard, and I’m glad that this program has kept him reading throughout the Summer so he’s definitely going to earn his rewards. Although, he has decided that he’d rather take a family trip to the trampoline park, so Daddy will definitely have to accompany us for this one. No way this pregnant mama will be doing any jumping right now. 😉
  • Linkin has been working through his Raising Rockstars Preschool Curriculum with me. We’ve completed 5 weeks of it now. (We’re just going through it slowly. He’s not real keen on doing the school thing just yet.) I’m proud to say that he’s been doing much better with having a good attitude and trying his best each day. It’s really all I ask him for, and he’s learned his Bible verses. I’m a proud mama.
  • Layten still gets read to daily, and she REALLY wanted to do school with us. Although it wasn’t it the plans, we started her with the Tot School Printables Curriculum this month, and she has LOVED it! She loves the intentional time with Mama as she gets to color and learn new words. She’s doing fabulous with it! She has also successfully weaned from the pacifier this month! My little girl is growing up!
  • Things still left on our Summer Bucket List: Float the Creek, Kroc Center, Zoo, Aquarium, Campfire, Bike Ride on a Trail, Hiking Adventure, Make pickles, Snow Boogers, and now The Trampoline Park (Who knows if we’ll get to all of these – probably not, but we’ll try to get to as many as we can)

Homeschooling Goals: 
We started back to school this month with some light schooling. Why, you ask?
Well for one, we are going to have a newborn in December and I know we will be taking some time off for that so we need to get a head start so we can have a break next Summer. Our requirement is 180 days so we need to try our best to meet that, even if it means starting early. I just know myself and that we will definitely want to take a mid-year break, especially to get used to having a new member in our family. And we pretty much always start in July, because I get excited to get to all the plans I’ve made. 😉
Second, we really all do well with having a routine. We like to have fun, but our normal schedule and routine is good for us, so we do what we want.
Third, I did say “light schooling” which means we started with our character study of Knight Training, me Reading Aloud to them, and our Memory Work… but other than that we didn’t do too much more than our current Summer Reading Program and Fun Summer Activities we have planned. I did end up adding in some light Math one week, and we started our new Bible Curriculum just so we could get our feet wet there.

My Personal Goals: Reading Plans
One of my goals is to read 12 books this year, and I had planned to finish up two more this month. However, I totally bombed this one. As Jon Acuff says in his book Finish, “You only have two options right now. Attempt more than is humanly possible and fail OR choose what to bomb and succeed at a goal that matters.” Wise words. So this was the area that I bombed this month, and I am not ashamed at all to say that.

Marriage Goals:
We have had intentional time together at home this month in the form of mini Netflix binges in between family activities… we had some time to go on a brief kayak trip together, a few budget meetings, one lunch date out, and at least two of what we’ll call “Family Dates” where we all went out to eat as a family this month.  We led a family small group together at church (which was incredible, by the way). This really helped us to have some really intentional conversations about our vision for our family, and how to get us there. Justin and I have both been more intentional in the past couple of years, but it was really good to bring those ideas together and let God give us a mission and a vision for our family. I’ll share those with you soon.

Health & Fitness Goals:
My goal here was to keep doing CrossFit, even if I have to modify and scale everything… to work harder at meal planning and prepping to have healthy meals readily accessible to me. I have not been perfect (though I’m not striving for perfection so that’s okay), but I feel like I’ve been pretty successful at this goal.

Financial Goals:

  • My goal was to continue in the grocery store & drugstore game for saving money with our food, toiletries, & household purchases. This has helped us SO MUCH! I have cut our grocery spending by more than half in the past two months! I will be sharing more about this soon.
  • I wanted to work on starting some sinking funds, and I have done that this month as well. I actually wrote out our “tentative” budget for each pay period through the end of the year, complete with sinking funds. This is really going to help us to be intentional with our finances and reach some much-needed goals.
  • I wanted to start preparing for Christmas. (Baby coming in December – I’ve gotta get on that!) I have purchased one gift this month to put up for Christmas, as well as spent time making several gifts. Aren’t handmade gifts the best, anyway? (I sure hope so, because that’s what our budget calls for, and I’m thankful that I have the time to allow me to spend on it, even though the money I’d like to spend is not always there.)
  • Another possible goal was to sell our house, maybe? We didn’t achieve this one, although I haven’t really done any work to sell it either. I’m kind of torn at the moment as to what to do here…. what God wants from us now. We don’t have any clear direction as of now, so we are just sitting and waiting. (We’re used to that, so it’s totally okay.) When we first put our house up for sale, we had no idea that we would be having a baby this year. You would think that might motivate us to sell it quicker and move into a new house with more space, but that’s not our goal at all. Our goal was actually to downsize and temporarily live with family and save money. Now I’m finding that I’m really content in our home, and I’m just rearranging, getting rid of clutter, and making small changes to make it into what I need it to be in order to work for us.

Professional Goals:
Purposeful Planning Tips & Strategies Series for the month of July… I posted a few of these, though I’ve also been working on some larger posts, such as my grocery and drugstore shopping and meal planning process and to update you about our sinking funds and our goals with that.

What else We’ve Been Up to this Summer: 

  • We took a family trip to Lynn Meadows Discovery Center.
  • We made S’mores at home.
  • We dressed like cows for free Chicken at Chick-fil-A for Cow Appreciation Day.
  • We participated in Serve Day with our church.
  • We had a play date at Perk Beach.
  • We went swimming and boating at Flint Creek several times.
  • We got to see our new baby via Ultrasound this month. (And I did not peek to see the gender.)

And that’s all for now… I’ll be posting soon about my goals for the month of August!

Whatever you do, Let’s go make a plan to be purposeful! 

My Monthly Goals for July 2018

After reviewing my yearly goals, here are the things I will be working on for the month of July… 

Spiritual Goals:
Proverbs 31 Ministries is offering an online Bible study this month of the book Seamless by Angie Smith. I missed this small group Bible Study when a group from our campus did it, but I heard it was phenomenal. So, when I got the email that it was going to be available as an online study, I ordered the book and jumped on board! This is the supplemental study I will be doing this month.

Mothering/Family Goals:

  • Lawson will still be working through his Summer Reading Passports Program and working toward his goals of earning a new book from the book store and a family trip to the Kroc Center.
  • Linkin will continue working through his Raising Rockstars Preschool with me.
  • Layten will continue to be read to daily, and we are going to try to work on weaning from the pacifier this weekend. (Prayers are appreciated.)
  • Things still left on our Summer Bucket List: Float the Creek, Kroc Center, Lynn Meadows, Zoo, S’mores, Aquarium, Campfire, Bike Ride on a Trail, Hiking Adventure, Make pickles, and Snow Boogers (Who knows if we’ll get to all of these – probably not, but we’ll try to get to as many as we can)

Homeschooling Goals: 
We will start back to school this week with some light schooling. Why, you ask?
Well for one, we are going to have a newborn in December and I know we will be taking some time off for that so we need to get a head start so we can have a break next Summer. Our requirement is 180 days so we need to try our best to meet that, even if it means starting early. I just know myself and that we will definitely want to take a mid-year break, especially to get used to having a new member in our family.
Second, we really all do well with having a routine. We like to have fun, but our normal schedule and routine is good for us, so we do what we want.
Third, I did say “light schooling” which means we will be starting with our character study of Knight Training, me Reading Aloud to them, and our Memory Work… but other than that we won’t do too much more than our current Summer Reading Program and Fun Summer Activities we have planned.

My Personal Goals: Reading Plans
One of my yearly goals was to read 12 books this year, which I am still on track to do.  This month I am finishing up reading Stengths Based Marriage (Build a Stronger Relationship By Understanding Each Other’s Gifts) by Jimmy Evans & Allan Kelsey and Knights in Training (Ten Principles for Raising Honorable, Courageous, and Compassionate Boys) by Heather Haupt.  This one I’m reading and taking notes on each chapter to go over with the boys each week.

Marriage Goals:
We are trying to still have monthly date nights and intentionally have some quality time at home at least once a week. We will be leading a family small group together is month.

Health & Fitness Goals:
Keep doing CrossFit, even if I have to modify and scale everything. Work harder at meal planning and prepping to have healthy meals readily accessible to me.

Financial Goals:

  • Continue in the grocery store & drugstore game for saving money with our food, toiletries, & household purchases.
  • Work on starting some sinking funds.
  • Prepare for Christmas. (Baby coming in December – I’ve gotta get on that!)
  • Sell our house, maybe?

Professional Goals:
Purposeful Planning Tips & Strategies Series for the month of July

What goals will you be working on this month? If you’re just starting out, you can read my series on My Purposeful Planning and hopefully be inspired with one thing to begin with and how to reach that one goal, which will only lead you to want to achieve more.

Let’s go make a plan to be purposeful! 

My Monthly Goals for June: An Update

 

After reviewing my yearly goals, here are the things I have been working on for the month of June…

Spiritual Goals:
I’m still working through reading the One Year Bible, and I’ve got a supplemental study that I will be doing over the next month. I had you praying for me in some areas I was struggling with – mostly with control and perfectionism in my parenting and also just trusting that God’s plan and whatever He has in store for us is best, even if we have to wait for it until His perfect timing. I’ve had many parenting challenges lately and it’s caused lots of frustrations and my emotions to go wild. I am aware of how I am responding to each of these challenges and frustrations, and I’m trying to intentionally replace those unhealthy responses with more positive and uplifting ones. It’s been a good month of learning and growing for me. You can read all about that in my last post.

Mothering/Family Goals:
We are on Summer Break, but it doesn’t mean we’re just watching T.V. and being lazy all day. We are still being purposeful with our time, each one of us.

Lawson is in the middle of a summer reading program where we’ve spent time reading at the park, on the couch, in the car, in the bed, with a stuffed animal, with a sibling, with a grandparent, while eating ice cream, and all sorts of others on our bucket list for the summer. It makes it a little more enjoyable for him, and he’s got two goals he’s working towards… One is to choose a new book to purchase from a book store, and the other is to go to the Kroc Center for a day with the family.

Linkin has been slowly working through some of his Raising Rockstars Preschool with me, and he’s learned his two Bible verses. I was also surprised to find out that he’s been paying attention and has learned many of the catechisms we’ve been working on. Layten just enjoys looking at books and being read to, and she is my big helper around the house lately.

What else We’ve Been Up to this Summer: 

  • Lawson has been to two Vacation Bible Schools this month. He went to one the very first week of June (the week after we finished homeschooling), and he said, “I’m not homeschooled this week- I’m Bible-schooled.” All of the kids got to go to Vacation Bible School this past week at my parents’ church, and they absolutely loved it!
  • We’ve been to the park a few times this month.
  • We had a messy art day of paining at the house.
  • A client of Justin’s invited us to come use their pool and house while they were out of town one weekend. It was kind of like a little stay-cation for us, where we got to swim and grill out.
  • Lawson also asked if we could have a “Milk Stand” (similar to a lemonade stand), but I suggested we do it and offer cookies and chocolate syrup for those that don’t like to drink milk. He worked for about three hours, and he had a pretty successful morning at it!


  • During our week with Nana and Papaw, we had a picnic and went swimming at Choctaw Lake.
  • We went to see Paw Patrol Live in Tupelo.
  • We went to see Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs 2 at the movie theater, and Memaw Francess got to keep Layten.
  • We also picked lots and lots of blueberries!
  • We went to a Biloxi Shuckers baseball game with our church.
  • We had Lawson’s sixth birthday party at Flint Creek.

  

My Personal Goals: Reading Plans
One of my yearly goals was to read 12 books this year, which I am still on track to do. This month I read Pitchin’ A Fit! (Overcoming Angry and Stressed-Out Parenting) by Israel & Brook Wayne, which you can read my post/review of this book here. I’m also still currently reading Stengths Based Marriage (Build a Stronger Relationship By Understanding Each Other’s Gifts) by Jimmy Evans & Allan Kelsey. 

Marriage Goals:
We attended a marriage conference this year, participated in a marriage small group this past semester, and have had one weekend getaway as a couple this year (the homeschool convention). We are trying to still have monthly date nights and intentionally have some quality time at home at least once a week.

Health & Fitness Goals:
I am still doing Crossfit! My only goal really is to just keep working out throughout this pregnancy. I’ve had to modify a lot of things this past month, which is kind of annoying, but I definitely want to stay safe. I’ve switched to Box Squats instead of regular Back Squats. I plank instead of doing any ab work. I do step ups instead of box jumps, modified burpees, and I’ve started doing bar-push ups instead of regular ones.  It’s so crazy how easily fatigued I feel now doing simple things I’ve been doing for months. Just keep moving, and try to eat as healthy as possible is my goal.

Financial Goals:
Our house is still for sale, but we aren’t stressed out about it not selling yet either. We’re really trying to just maximize our budget, and make it work for us the best we can. We really believe in being intentional in all areas, even with our money. We prioritize the things that are important to us – especially tithing, paying our bills, and other things like family activities that we are intentional with. Summers have always been difficult months for us, financially. Although Justin doesn’t take time off during the Summers or anything, his clients do for their Summer vacations and things they have going so he misses those sessions and the pay from them. And usually our utility costs go up during the Summer months as well, so it makes things pretty tight. This year, has been better though, because we’ve had his pay from CrossFit to supplement. We are so thankful for that!

I am working to manage our food and grocery budget a little better, though. Now that I’m coming out of the season of morning sickness, I think I can really be more diligent about meal-planning, prepping, and saving money while grocery shopping. We realized that Walmart shopping was really sucking up our grocery and food budget. Although, we aren’t wasteful, and we pretty much eat all of the food we buy each week, it just wasn’t cutting it. We were spending too much there and couldn’t figure out a way to spend less and continue to do the same things. So we’ve made some changes, and it definitely takes more planning on my part. We decided that we would purchase a Sam’s Club membership to use once or twice a month, at most, and start shopping again at Winn Dixie, Rouses if they have good sales, and also do a little of the drugstore game at CVS (the land of free!).

Like I said, it takes a lot of planning. I have to research and print my shopping lists and any matching coupons, and we set aside a day to make a trip to the coast to shop. Since I am a stay at home mom, all three of my kids come with me. This has been something new for us, because one of our children has anxiety anytime we leave the house, and pretty much has a meltdown any time we go in a store. He is getting a little older now though, so we’re trying our best to work through this and find strategies that work for us. So far, we’ve only had one bad shopping experience in the two or three weeks we’ve tried this. I plan ahead things like sandwiches for a picnic at the park, snacks to have between stores, and rewards for good behavior. Of course, I always bring freezer bags and coolers with us and we do our best to purchase the cold things last so we can go straight home afterwards. I’m thinking that I won’t be able to continue to do all of this when maybe #4 comes in December. I will simply have no room for kids AND groceries in our car, but hopefully we can figure something out by then.

Professional Goals:
I’ve been thinking and praying about which direction my blog should take. For a while the ideas and things I was getting inspired by didn’t seem to fit into “Purposeful Planning”, but then I realized that pretty much every single aspect of my life can fit into that in some way or another. Every goal I set, every system or routine I have, has a purpose behind it, and it usually also involves some planning. I’ll be sharing a post this week about the direction we’ll be doing this month with the blog. (Monthly Series starting soon… eek!)

Let’s go make a plan to be purposeful!