Vision Series

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about Vision… why it’s important, how to write it out, and how having a big vision can help us to be more purposeful in life.

Vision – the ability to think about or plan the future with imagination or wisdom; a mental image of what the future will or could be like; a vivid mental image, especially a fanciful one of the future

Do you think it’s important to have a Big Life Vision, or is it something you’d rather not even think about? If i’m being honest, which I always try my best to do here, I would tell you that although I consider myself a big dreamer and LOVE to think about the future and what I want to accomplish in life… other times – those big, lofty things are just daunting to me… they sometimes seem impossible, and I begin to ask “What is the point?”

Well, I’ll tell you the point. The point is that if you have NO vision, you are living a very purposeless life. That’s something I definitely don’t want to do.

Proverbs 29:18 says, “Where there is no vision, the people perish.”

If I were to stop there, I could easily read into scripture and think what I wanted that “the vision” is all about me and whatever hopes, goals, and desires I have for myself in life. It would be all good, all positive, and there would be absolutely no hardships or effort involved. I would just wake up one day, and life would be grand.

However, as I study this verse a little deeper and read it in different versions, I can gain more clarity from it. I did that, and I’m going to just share a summary of the different versions I read for you here…

When we have no vision…
When we have no revelation of God and His word…
When we don’t have guidance from God…
When we have no word from God, no prophecy…
When we can’t see what God is doing…
When there is no message from God…
Where there is no understanding of the Word of the Lord…

…then…

….we perish.
…we are unrestrained.
…we get out of control.
…we have no law and order.
…we stumble all over ourselves.
…we do whatever we want to.

And those things are no good. So you see, we NEED vision. But not just any vision. We need to ask God to reveal HIS vision to us, and pray that our desires and our hearts would line up with that vision.

I’d like to explore this idea of having a Big Life Vision more with you, but I want to also make sure that I do it in the right order. We can’t just write out the vision without God’s help. We can’t do this in our own efforts, or it just won’t work. (Ask me how I know that.) I’m going to break this down into a Vision Series where we explore each of the steps. I’d like to share at least some of the vision that God has placed on my heart, and I’d LOVE to share with you all of the aspects and ways that He brings those things into fruition. That part might be ongoing, but I’m okay with that as long as it’s all in His plan.

So, let’s put things back in order…
1. Delight yourself in the Lord.
2. Truly seek to obey Him in whatever you do.
3. See that your heart’s desires line up with His plans and purposes for you.
4. Watch him bless you abundantly, even more than you could think or imagine.

This will also be the order in which I’ll share my thoughts on this topic of Vision….
Monday, October 15th – First, we’ll talk about what it means to delight ourselves in the Lord. We’re going to get back to the basics here, and I’m going to give you a challenge for the week on how we can do that.

Monday, October 22nd – We’ll discuss Obedience… why our plans fail sometimes, how it sometimes falls on us, and what we can do to change that so that we’re ready and obedient to God, no matter what.

Monday, October 29th – We’ll talk about how we can actually write out our Big Life Visions… visions that line up with God’s plans for us. I’ll share with you some steps for doing this, and I hope to share with you some of the vision that God has placed on my heart as well.

We’ll wrap up there, but I hope to also be able to share with you, ongoing, how God is blessing me and my family abundantly… and I would LOVE to hear how he’s blessing you abundantly too. This is going to lead nicely into the month of November where we can easily focus on Gratitude and Thank God for all He’s done! See you on Monday for the first post of this three-week series!

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    10 Parenting Strategies I’ve Learned By Having a Strong-Willed Child

     

    Parenting is one of those things that you are never truly prepared for. No matter how excited and ready you think you are for it, there’s going to be at least some aspect of it that totally throws you for a loop. For us, we thought we had it going on! You know, before we had our kids! Actually, we were still pretty prideful even for the first two years with our oldest. He is like the model child of high standards set for all our children to follow. Bless their hearts. I even thought I was going to write a book about parenting back then saying, “If everyone just did exactly what we did, then they would have perfect children like ours too.” Wrong. Wrong. I have never been more wrong.

    Our second son came along, the strong-willed one, and we quickly learned that we have no idea what we’re doing here, and I threw that book out. If I ever write a book on parenting, it will certainly NOT be about what awesome parents we are and how we do everything perfectly. We learned our lesson. Pride comes before the fall. We fell, and we fell hard. We have struggled for years learning how to do this parenting thing again as all of our original ideals were easily turned upside down, shaken up, and had to be reassembled into something new with child #2. In case you didn’t know, all children are different, and you have to parent them all differently as well.

       

    Our strong-willed child is four now. I really don’t like calling him that because those words tend to give off a negative connotation in these early years, but it is what it is, and we are just doing our best to steer it in the right direction so that he’ll use it for good as he gets older. We know that it really is a GOOD thing, and that will begin to show up when he’s a little older. My husband has often said, “I wish we could all be like Linkin. He just does his own thing and does not even care what anyone else thinks about it.” It true. He has his own ideas about EVERYTHING. He is super smart and intelligent… especially in the ways that he thinks. I often just wish I could see what’s going on inside his brain because he is just so creative and often totally unexpected in HOW he thinks about things and processes things.

    But as a parent, it puzzles me. I feel that he is so intelligent sometimes that he is always one step ahead of me in his thinking and his scheming… which can be a scary feeling for a parent. Sure, I do have some wisdom myself and the experience that 28 years of life has given me, but it often doesn’t feel like enough.

    It doesn’t feel like enough when he finds a loophole or argument in literally everything I ask of him. Obedience doesn’t come easily for him. Accepting that fact hasn’t been easy for us as parents. We expected our children to just obey because we are the ones in charge, and they are the children. We knew it wouldn’t just happen naturally, but we thought if we were consistent enough by following up their disobedience with a consequence and discipline, they would learn. But the truth is – it WASN’T working. Our method of discipline wasn’t what THIS child needed.

    We’d always heard that with strong-willed children, your will as the parent has to be stronger. Now, I’ll admit that I’ve never read the popular book by Dr. James Dobson that everyone recommends, but I always took that quote to mean something different. As it turns out, “strong” doesn’t necessarily mean what we think it means. I’ve looked up the definition for you to demonstrate this point. Thank you, Google.

    “Able to withstand great force or pressure”
    Synonyms: secure, well-built, indestructible, well fortified, well protected, solid,
    -(of a person’s constitution) not easily affected by disease or heardship
    -not easily disturbed, upset, or affected
    -(of a person’s character) showing determination, self-control, and good judgement
    -firmly held or established

    Being strong as a parent is not about exerting great force and performing physically demanding tasks. It’s about being strong enough to weather the storm, that is your child. It’s about having a good solid, foundation and being sturdy enough ourselves, as the parents, that we can endure the hardships that parenting brings us through.

    Now, I never want to come across as “I’ve got this all figured out.” In fact, that would be very untrue. I feel that God gives us our children, and he uses them to teach us. We THINK we are training and teaching our children, but really they teach us so much more. God uses these little humans to teach us and shape us, and I’m so thankful that He does. I’m so thankful that He loves me too much to leave me the way that I am, the way I often feel about my children as well. Here are some of the things He has taught me recently.

    10 Parenting Strategies I’ve Learned By Having a Strong-Willed Child:

     

    1. I’ve learned to not give up.

    I’m so glad that God had never thrown his hands up and given up on me… Lord knows there have been plenty of opportunities where He surely could have. So we just can’t do that with our child either.

    Just the other day my husband, Justin, said to me, “I wonder what things we are just so stubborn about that God is just up there shaking his head wondering when we’re gonna learn to trust Him.” It’s so true. We are just as stubborn and strong-willed as our child, and God has never once given up on us.

    2. I’ve learned to give grace and patience.

    As much grace and patience has been given to us, is how much grace and patience should be given to others… including our own children.
    (I’ll give you a hint… it’s a lot.) It doesn’t mean that I let them get away with every bit of disobedience, but I’ve learned that it’s about disciplining them in a different way to teach them the same lesson. God has never been harsh with me to teach me a lesson. I’ve suffered the natural consequences, sure… but he’s always given me grace and been patient with me. I can do the same for my child.

    3. I’ve learned how to be gentle.

    I’ve learned that I should keep gently steering their wills in the right direction, especially the strong ones. We have to be especially gentle with those. Harsh punishments aren’t always the best way for a child as each child will respond differently to these things. Sometimes when a will is strong, these harsh approaches only make those wills stronger and harder to turn. I have personally found that the more gentle we are, the more easily the wills begin to turn.

    4. I’ve learned that I should let go of anger.

    It’s easy to get angry when our children just don’t obey or they have plans of their own that aren’t lining up with ours. You might even think it’s righteous anger, as we did, because “you are the parent” after all, but I would like to challenge that and encourage you to take a different approach the next time you feel angry with your child. Think instead about how God would respond to your own disobedience to Him… and in turn, pray and ask how He would have you respond to your child. You might find yourself getting angry less often, the more you practice this.

    I learned so much about this by reading the book Pitchin’ a Fit by Israel and Brooke Wayne. You can read more about that in my post here.

    5. I’ve learned to love my children unconditionally.

    I want my children to know that there is absolutely nothing they can do that would make you stop loving them. It’s the way that God is with us, and our children need to feel this from us as their parents.

    6. I’ve learned how to be my children’s safe place to express their thoughts and feelings.

    In addition to letting them know that I love them, no matter what, I want to be the one that is always going to listen to them and hear what they have to say. I don’t always have a practical or appropriate response either. Sometimes, I just let them talk, and am there to listen.

    Before language skills were where they are now, this was much harder for us. I saw that strong will working, and I had to ask questions to try to figure out how my child was feeling and why he was acting out a certain way… “Are you tired? Are you angry? Do you feel sad? Are you hungry?” Now he is at an age where he can begin to tell me himself what’s going on and how he’s feeling.

    It’s important that we don’t just brush these things off. We can let our child be free to have hard moments, moments of strong emotion, real feelings – as long as we steer those in a way that’s not hurting anyone else. (Remember – sometimes we have real feelings and emotions too, hard days.) It’s good to have real feelings and learn how to express them in healthy ways. It’s taken me most of my life to learn how to do this, so I want my children to hopefully learn it sooner than I have.

    I also think this is going to be so important when we hit those teenage years. If your child doesn’t find you as their safe place to confide things as a young child, they surely won’t do it when they’re older. If you are worried about how you will respond to what they tell you and fear that you won’t understand and might even reprimand them for those things, they will instead keep those feelings inside instead of learning how to deal with them in appropriate ways. You are their parent, but part of that job is listening and helping to gently guide them to find appropriate responses to their real feelings and behaviors.

    7. I’ve learned to submit my own will to that of my Heavenly Father.

    Just like we can be that safe place for our child, God is always that safe place for us. We can tell Him our thoughts and feelings, and He is always there to listen. Then, we can take time to hear what He says to us too, and see how He gently directs us into handling things in the best way. We can let Him lead us in our parenting.

    8. I’ve learned to see my children as God sees them.

    God is such a creative God, and He’s done a remarkable job with each and every one of His creations, especially people -His favorite things that He has made. We can seek out the positive in our children. Look for the great personality traits and the gifts and talents they have been given. Thank God for these things. Praise Him for how he has made each of your children unique and special. Let them hear you doing this. Call out the positive traits and behaviors you see in them, and pray these things over them as well.

    I challenge you to try your best to only speak positively about your children. It doesn’t mean that you have to lie, but it does mean that you should be actively seeking out the positive things you see in them instead. Don’t call your children “bad”. Yes, all children are born bad and sinful beings. We all were born bad. (Romans 3:23) It’s our job as parents to teach them to be “good”. When you continue to call them bad and let them hear you say this, they claim that as their identity and accept it to be who they are. Continuing to call children bad is just an excuse to be lazy and not parent them well, in my opinion.

    9. I’ve learned how to develop a Family I.D. that gives our family and parenting direction.

    We did this through a church small group we lead, and you can read more about it here.  Ask God to give you a specific vision and mission for your family. This will help you so much in your parenting, because it gives you direction and a language to use with your children as you parent them. It gives you specific and strategic words to pray over them as well. We know we should pray for our children, but we sometimes don’t know how so this helps us to do that. We know we should steer and guide our children, but how can we if we don’t know which direction we’re headed? This vision gives you that direction, and the mission gives you a plan to carry out that vision and a specific route to take with your family.

    10. I’ve learned to be proactive in my parenting and to use the spiritual tools I’ve been given as a Christian.

    As parents, and Christians in general, we have to always be prepared to engage in the spiritual battle that is at hand. We have to be on guard ourselves. We have to be in the Word daily and girded up with truth so that we have the tools we need to fight… the spiritual armor of God. We have to do this ourselves, so that we can teach it to our children. We have to lay the foundation in our homes so that when we walk outside those doors and send our children out, they are ready to fight too. You know that the battle our children are facing today is even harder than the one we faced as kids, right? Our kids are being targeted so that they grow up to think things such as “sin” are normal and accepted. We have to keep a vigilant eye out for things they are being exposed to in media, in conversations with their peers, in their educations, etc.

    I’m definitely not perfect at these 10 things, and there are days I still struggle with getting angry or not being gently when I should. None of us are perfect, but we can learn from our mistakes and grow from them. We definitely don’t have it all figured out as parents, but we are learning. Each new child we receive from God is an opportunity for us to learn something new that He has for us. We are blessed, and we are thankful for these lessons learned and for these special blessings we call children. We are thankful for God’s grace for us and the direction He gives us daily. We celebrate these things as often as we can! I hope this has influenced you in some way. I’d love to hear from you if it has or if there’s something you’ve learned from parenting a strong-willed child. 

    My Monthly Goals

    After reviewing my yearly goals, here is an update for September and a preview of the things I will be working on for the month of October…

    I like to share my Monthly Goals with you here because it holds me accountable for one, and also I just hope that it can inspire you in some way to create goals of your own and find something that you can be working on. I believe that to be purposeful and intentional, we have to sometimes make an effort to do so. I like to make a plan of how I will accomplish certain goals, and I’ve found it to be really helpful for me. Your plans may not be as detailed as mine, and that’s perfectly okay. I’ve been doing this for quite some time now. Just start somewhere with something, and make a plan to be more purposeful. You’ll be glad you did!

    Spiritual Goals:

    Continue reading the One Year Bible & praying strategically

    Mothering/Family Goals:

    • Football season with Lawson.
    • Bi-weekly trips to the Library with my kids
    • Linkin has a special goal he is working towards for a prize, but I won’t share it here. (He’s almost finished!)

    The boys also asked how they could earn some extra money so that they can buy things they want when we go shopping, so I considered this. We don’t give a regular allowance for chores that are expected of all of our family members, so this would have to be something extra. I did come up with a few extra things that I would pay them to do. Lawson took me up on this twice, but since then nothing. I’ve offered it to Linkin too, but he really would rather not do extra work, so there ya go. 😉

    Homeschooling Goals:

    This month I started grading some of Lawson’s work to help me to better track his progress and to also make sure that things like handwriting and spelling actually get done correctly. I don’t know the correct way to teach this, other than to have him “fix” the mistakes so he doesn’t continue to make the same ones over and over. I introduced the “You Can Read Sight Words” curriculum to Linkin to test out. It’s a more hands-on approach, so I think we may either switch over completely or at least add in some of these activities each week. Layten is continuing with her Tot School Printables. For more on our Homeschooling… you can visit our Homeschool Page. 

    My Personal Goals:

    Blogging –


    I’ve got several small goals that I’m working on currently with this blog, and it’s all just kind of a big learning process for me. I actually merged my blog to a whole new hosting site this month, and you may have noticed my new newsletter feature. I’m trying to work at it at least a little each day and hopefully, I’ll get even better at consistency and gain some momentum. It’s all part of the bigger goal and vision that I have, but I’m just working through one thing at a time. Thank you for your patience with me and support!

    Home Organization –

    (Kids’ Clothes)

    I went through all of the kids’ clothes storage this past month to see what we have/what we needed for the upcoming Fall/Winter season. Turns out, we have plenty for them from all of the hand-me-downs we’ve been given, and it wasn’t necessary for me to take a shopping trip to the kids’ consignment sale this year.

    (Desk Solution)

    I didn’t purchase a new desk, but I did reorganize all of my office, home school, and planning supplies into bins on a 4-cubby shelf that I moved into the dining room. I purchased two chalkboards that we can use for school or our memory work. I can use the dining table as my “work surface”, and I just have to put everything away when I’m done. It’s working well for now, because everything has a place.

    (Baby Items)

    This month I will be going through all of the baby boxes we have. Since we don’t know the gender of our baby coming in December, I will get all of our newborn things for both genders together to see what we have and what we still need. We’ve got 10 weeks left, but I’m working on this mostly during our home school break week.

    Marriage Goals:

    • Weekly Budget Meetings as a Couple to keep us on Track with our Goals (Sometimes these happen through text messaging, but we try to stay on track and keep each other updated.)
    • Weekly Quality Time Together at home (This one has been hard to come by because our kids are so needy and demanding *insert chuckle*. We have movies we’ve started but not finished. We’ve got to get better at this one.)
    • At Least One Date Night This Month – We had an at-home date night this past month with take-out sushi, Ben & Jerry’s ice cream, and a movie.

    Health & Fitness Goals:

    Health, Smealth! I’m kidding, but this has been a FULL month so it has not been something I’ve been able to prioritize as much. I had several deadlines and things that needed to be completed so I didn’t prioritize making it to the gym to workout as much. I still made it about once-twice/week but it’s definitely not where I was used to.

    Financial Goals:

    • Continue in the grocery store & drugstore game for saving money with our food, toiletries, & household purchases.
    • I know I’ve mentioned sinking funds here before. We have tried for two months and four pay periods to make them work for us, but so far, we haven’t had much success in that area. I’ve had to cut some lines from our budget, and of course the sinking funds/planning ahead were the first to go, unfortunately. Maybe one day we will get it. It doesn’t mean we aren’t trying.
    • Prepare for Christmas. (Baby coming in December – I’ve gotta get on it!) I purchased a few gifts this past month, including one for our children, collectively, and I’ve been working on solidifying their Christmas lists with the things they tell me. I’d like to purchase or make a few more gifts this month.

    What goals will you be working on this month?

    If you’re just starting out, you can read my series on My Purposeful Planning. Choose one goal to start working on, learn how to reach that one goal, and I think doing this will only lead you to want to achieve more.

    Whatever you do, let’s go make a plan to be more purposeful! 

    Introducing… Commonplace Corner

    One thing that I love to do is to look at houses… I love seeing layouts of homes, looking at home pictures as people post their houses for sale online, real estate sites, design, decor, from the outside in… It’s just such a fun thing for me!

    Recently we were invited to the home of some friends of ours, whose home we’d never been to before. I loved the set up they had outside with such a great entertaining space, but of course I was curious what the rest of the house looked like as well. I think I may have asked a question of what a space was used for or something and maybe she could tell how interested and curious I was, so she asked if I’d like to see the house. Well, of course, that was a “yes”, so she gave me a quick tour. I just love to see how different families create a sense of “home” with the spaces that they have. I love that this family, in particular, regularly opens up their home to guests and create such an inviting atmosphere of fellowship and generosity with friends, family, and pretty much anyone they meet. It’s beautiful.

    Sometimes I get the idea that things like decorating and design aren’t really necessities in life, even though they are things that I really enjoy and feel a great love for. Some of my favorite Instagram accounts to follow are decorating and design accounts. No, I don’t have the budget to purchase new things for my home on a regular basis or to do many of the ideas that I see on those accounts, but I still just love to see them – how they are creating such warm, inviting homes… places of comfort for their families. I just love it! And it does give me ideas! I think I have a list of ideas always running in my head of things I’d like to do in my home to make it a little more functional, a little prettier, or a little more cozy.

    I want it to be a space that functions well for us as we play, home school. prepare and eat meals, and even have guests over from time to time. Sure, I’d love to have a free budget and space to decorate however I want to, to make the space truly display my favorite design styles. But for now, it’s using what we have – our very limited budget, to create the atmosphere of home that will benefit us now. Most of the ideas I have are quite simple – to repaint this piece of furniture, hang something on that wall, or organize this closet to function for a us a little better. Sometimes it’s just a matter of thinking about our things a little bit differently, and I can use the things we already have in a new way to bring life to an area. I just love doing that, even though it seems that my project list sometimes never ends.

    So the more I think about this, the more I’m convinced that these are definitely not bad things… and perhaps, they ARE very important. You see, I am a homemaker. And you, you who are reading this – if you have a home, you can be a homemaker too. No matter what your current “work” or “vocation” is, you too, can create an atmosphere of “home” for your family and guests to come back to each day and relax, and to be restored.

    “Home is a place where we can serve, love, and encourage within the safe walls that contain the secrets, fears, dreams, life work, and love that knit the hearts of our family together.” -Sally Clarkson

    Have you ever heard of a Commonplace Book? It’s a book that often accompanies one that you are reading, where you write down the thoughts that strike you or speak to you. I’ve done this before, actually, but I didn’t know that there was a name for this type of thing, and mine has never been organized into one particular book- but rather a scrap piece of paper or sheet from my planner. However, I love the idea, and sometimes as I’m reading – something inspires me and I want to ponder the topic even further. It’s actually how this very blog post came about. I was inspired in my thinking and to write to you. My inspiration today is from the book, “The Life-Giving Home” by Sally and Sarah Clarkson. So I want to insert a few quotes or paraphrased quotes from this book to hopefully inspire you too in this idea, as I introduce to you one of the newest features on My Purposeful Planning…

     

     

    Jesus gives us a great example and model for serving our families when we think about that last meal that he prepared for his disciples before his death. Just think about how he probably hired the best chef in town to prepare that feast of succulent roasted lamb and the best wine. Even though he must’ve been so weary just thinking about what he was about to endure, he served graciously. He intentionally took things even a step further as he knelt down to wash each of their feet. He spoke to them his most life-giving words as he taught them the greatest principles he wanted them to know before he left them…

    Always His heart and words were focused on His beloved band of friends. Always He was thinking of how to prepare them, to strengthen them. Not even in His death did He focus on His own needs.

    Home is one of the places of refuge that many in our world have not valued or known in a personal way. There is no prepared place where they can come expecting to find solace, welcome, comfort, acceptance, truth, and ease. But I am determined that those I love will have such a place. And so, following Jesus’ model of service and hospitality, I choose to prepare for and serve those who share my home and those who enter my doors.

    It is the giving rhythms of home that provide the right atmosphere for passing on the essential heart attitudes and warm relationships in life. I reach hearts by cooking meals, by washing sheets and fluffing pillows, by reading a favorite book one more time even though I have it memorized. I do it when I clean and decorate a space to make it beautiful and comfortable and inviting. I do it when I choose to respond graciously to a question. Both literally and metaphorically, in my home I have the privilege of washing feet every day.

    Service begins with serving those who are closest to us, making home the very best place to be.

    I hope you have been inspired by these words from Sally, just as I have, and I hope you enjoy my blog’s newest feature. We can be homemakers and we can serve our families well. We can start today. 

    Let’s make a plan to be more purposeful.  

    Our Family I.D.

    This Summer, Justin and I led a small group at our church called Family I.D., and it was phenomenal! I’ve been wanting to share with you the things that God gave us for our family through doing this small group…. Our Core Values, Our Vision Statement, our Mission Statement, and our Family Slogan.

    We weren’t sure how this small group would go. There were a lot of hands-on activities that required each family represented to do some “homework”. We didn’t know if it was something they would grasp ahold of and actually take the time to do or not. To be honest, we weren’t super excited to do the work ourselves. But as the weeks went on, the process became clearer and clearer, and God spoke to each of the families represented in our small group and gave each one a clear Family I.D.

    We started by selecting our Family Core Values. You’ve heard my mention these on my blog. The worksheet printable I created for you here at My Purposeful Planning is very similar to the one we used for this small group. We compared our lists with that of our spouse and discussed the similarities and differences in our lists. We took it home and also talked to our children about our lists. We narrowed our lists down to which Core Values we would like to best represent our family.

    In no certain order, here are the Core Values our family chose…
    Family & Relationships
    Humor
    Knowing God / Prayer / Worship
    Personal Growth / Growth
    Teamwork / Unity

    At first I thought that “humor” seemed like a silly thing to be included in our core values, but the more I thought about it, the more I loved that it was one that we chose. We want to laugh and be silly with our kids always, and we want to laugh and enjoy having fun with friends, family, and guests when they come to visit our home as well. Laughter and humor are good things. I think the rest of the values we chose are probably self-explanatory.

    We added verbs to help solidify these for our family…
    Celebrate Family & Relationships.
    Embrace Humor.
    Prioritize Knowing God, Prayer, & Worship.
    Pursue Personal Growth.
    Praise Teamwork & Unity.

    Next, we worked to write our Family Vision Statement. 
    “Having a well-defined vision statement will help ensure that no matter what life brings, no matter where we find ourselves, we can still get our bearings and stay on course.” – Greg Gunn

    “Your family vision statement describes where you are going in words that greatly motivate you to take action.”

    “Write the vision; make it plain on tablets, so he may run who reads it.” Habakkuk 2:2 ESV

    Our Family Vision Statement is… 
    “To collectively know who we are in Christ and use each of our unique giftings to fulfill God’s Purpose”

    After coming up with our vision statement and knowing the direction we wanted our family to go, we came up with a Family Mission Statement that would help us get there… “We will build solid family relationships that are grounded in God, Growth, and Grace.”

    And finally, we came up with a simple slogan that our entire family can easily remember to sum up all of these things… Our Family Slogan is “We’re Grounded!” I’m thinking it’s going to be fun to have shirts made for our kids to wear that tell the world they are grounded… (Pun intended). Of course the Mission Statement will probably be there somewhere on the shirt to, and hopefully we’ll all be able to explain what it means to us, in case people ask.

    It’s so important that we aren’t “just winging it” as parents. It’s too important of a responsibility that we’ve been given. Having a vision for WHERE we want our family to end up and then coming up with a mission for HOW we will get there is vital. Think about what you want your kids to be like as adults. How can you start encouraging these things in your children now?

    We personally love that this small group and these things have given us the verbage and language we needed to talk to our kids about the things God gave us for our family. It’s given us specific things that we can pray over each member of our family daily, which is really strategic in helping us move forward with the direction God wants our family to go.

    If you’d like more information about this particular small group curriculum, here’s a link to the videos we watched in each group session as well as the website with more family resources available.

    Have you done something like this for your family? Really pray about this, and take the time to do this with your spouse or partner in parenting. I’d love to know what you come up with!

    Whatever you do, Let’s Make a Plan to Be More Purposeful! 

    My Monthly Goals for September 2018

    After reviewing my yearly goals, here are the things I will be working on for the month of September… 

    Spiritual Goals:
    Continue in reading the One Year Bible

    Mothering/Family Goals:

    • Begin the football season with Lawson.
    • Bi-weekly trips to the Library with my kids
    • Linkin has a special goal he is working towards for a prize, but I won’t share it here.
    • The boys have also asked how they can earn some extra money so that they can buy things they want when we go shopping, so I’m considering this. We don’t give a regular allowance for chores that are expected of all of our family members, so this will have to be something extra.

      Homeschooling Goals:
      We are back to homeschooling, full force now. Layten will continue to work through Tot School Printables Curriculum with me. Linkin with continue to work through Raising Rockstars Preschool with me. Lawson will continue in Language Arts, Math, and Penmanship/Handwriting. We will continue to do Bible Roadtrip as a family. We will especially work this month on establishing a regular “Morning Time” for our memory work and read alouds. We’ve been getting this done, but having a set time for it would greatly benefit us I think.

    My Personal Goals:
    Reading Plans –
    I’m working to get my Hoopla app working so I can listen to audio books from the library. If I can get this to work, my plan is to listen to one or two books this month. I will count this towards my goal of reading 12 books this year.
    Home Organization –
    (Kids’ Clothes) This month I will be going through all of the kids’ seasonal clothes (and possibly also the baby clothes we have in storage). I’ll make a list of what each child will need to make a simple and minimal Fall/Winter Capsule Wardrobe. There is a Kids’ Consignment at the end of this month I plan to attend and stock up on everything we’ll need. I’m praying that our budget will allow for this because it will be so nice to get all of that shopping done in one day. We currently have all three kids sharing a room with one closet and one dresser, and we plan to keep it to that – especially with a new baby coming.
    (Desk Solution) I also have another home organization goal of replacing my large desk in our master bedroom with a smaller (but with more functional vertical storage) version that we can use elsewhere in the house (possibly the living room or dining room). I don’t love the idea of having a desk in the living areas of the house, but I do really benefit from having a desk and a place to keep my planning and blogging supplies… a place to spread out when I need to, but also have a home for everything too. The reason I’m looking to do this, is that we need that space in our room for our baby’s crib in December (except that now it’s currently taking up unnecessary play space in the kids’ play room) so the sooner, the better. This may not happen this month if the budget and time doesn’t allow for it, but the reason I’m thinking about it now is that we only have two more homeschool break weeks before the baby comes, and one of those is Thanksgiving Week – which I’d like to save for our travels and for Christmas decorating.

    Marriage Goals:

    • Weekly Budget Meetings as a Couple to keep us on Track with our Goals (Sometimes these happen through text messaging, but we try to stay on track and keep each other updated.)
    • Weekly Quality Time Together at home (This one has been hard to come by because our kids are so needy and demanding *insert chuckle*. We have movies we’ve started but not finished. We’ve got to get better at this one.)
    • At Least One Date Night This Month (We already had a date night this past weekend, actually, so if we have another it would just be a bonus.)

      Health & Fitness Goals:
      Keep doing CrossFit, even if I have to modify and scale everything. Keep meal planning and having healthy meals readily accessible for us.

    Financial Goals:

    • Continue in the grocery store & drugstore game for saving money with our food, toiletries, & household purchases.
    • Continue with sinking funds & reaching goals there.
    • Prepare for Christmas. (Baby coming in December – I’ve gotta get on that!) Purchase or make at least one gift this month.

    Professional Goals:
    Post about our Family’s Core Values, Vision, Mission, and Slogan
    Post about our Sinking Funds & Financial Goals
    What else would you like to see from me this month?

    What goals will you be working on this month? If you’re just starting out, you can read my series on My Purposeful Planning and hopefully be inspired with one thing to begin with and how to reach that one goal, which will only lead you to want to achieve more.

    Whatever you do, Let’s go make a plan to be purposeful! 

    My Monthly Goals for August 2018: An Update

    After reviewing my yearly goals, here are the things I will be worked on for the month of August… 

    Spiritual Goals:
    I’m finishing up the Seamless Bible Study by Angie Smith with Proverbs 31 Ministries this month, and next week I will begin the Medication study of Psalm 119 provided by Stone Soup for Five. (done)

    Mothering/Family Goals:

    • Sign Lawson up for recreational football. (done)
    • Family Trip to the book store for Lawson to pick out his new book as a reward for completing his Summer Reading Passports Program. (We have been doing this at the library instead.) 
    • Family Trip to the Trampoline for Lawson’s second reward for completing his Summer Reading Passports Program. (done)
    • Linkin has a special goal he is working towards for a prize too, but I won’t share it here. He will also benefit from Lawson reaching his goal, of course. (in progress)
    • Linkin will continue working through his Raising Rockstars Preschool with me. (in progress)
    • Layten will continue working through Tot Schools Printables Curriculum with me. (in progress)
    • Things still left on our Summer Bucket List: Float the Creek, Kroc Center, Zoo, S’mores, Aquarium, Campfire, Bike Ride on a Trail, Hiking Adventure, Make pickles, Snow Boogers, and the Trampoline Park (We completed the activities in bold.)

    Homeschooling Goals:
    After our Break Week, we will be adding in our Language Arts Curriculum on week 1, followed by Botany and Apologetics, which we go through slowly at our own pace. I’ll be posting in more detail about our homeschooling plans soon. (done)

    My Personal Goals: Reading Plans
    Right now, I don’t know if I can really prioritize this as a goal, but I might try to start a new book if one grabs me. We’ll see. No definite plans as of now for this month. (no plans = done)

    Marriage Goals:

    • Weekly Budget Meetings as a Couple to keep us on Track with our Goals (done)
    • Weekly Quality Time Together at home (done)
    • At Least One Date Night This Month (didn’t happen in August, but we’ve already had a date in Sept.)
    • Cheer on Justin as he competes in the first, annual Anchor Games this month. (done)
    • Work together on reaching goals set for opening the new CrossFit gym the first week in September. Exciting! (done) 

      Health & Fitness Goals
      Keep doing CrossFit, even if I have to modify and scale everything. Keep meal planning and having healthy meals readily accessible for me. (in progress)

    Financial Goals:

    • Continue in the grocery store & drugstore game for saving money with our food, toiletries, & household purchases. (in progress)
    • Continue with sinking funds & reaching goals there. (We had to use what we’d set aside for “sinking funds” in the month of August. Even though we have a strict, minimalistic budget – our income is still unpredictable. Our plans are to “catch up” with our Sinking Funds plan in September so we can still stay on track and reach our goals.) 
    • Prepare for Christmas. (Baby coming in December – I’ve gotta get on that!) Purchase or make at least one gift this month. Talk with family about holiday plans. (We didn’t have the funds for this in August, but we have been thinking and discussing our plans.) 

    Professional Goals:
    Post about our Family’s Core Values, Vision, Mission, and Slogan (still on my list)
    Post about my Grocery, Drugstore, and Sam’s Shopping Process (done)
    Post about our Sinking Funds & Financial Goals (still on my list – bumps in the road have made these posts difficult to write)
    Posts about our Homeschool Methods, Curricula, and Goals (done)

    Whatever you do, Let’s go make a plan to be purposeful! 

    My Winn Dixie Shopping Trip 8/3/18

    Do you always wonder what things other people buy for groceries and how much they spend?? I know I do. I love to see breakdowns like this, but I also feel like sometimes it’s been unattainable for me because either we don’t have the same stores available to us here or we eat and use totally different products than the things they do. I think I just need to see the whole process from start to finish in order for me to grasp the entire concept.

    So that’s exactly what I’ve done with this series of posts. (If you missed my planning and preparing process in part one, you can find it here.) I’m taking you from the very beginning to the end. Who knows? We might even have a continuation where I show you what meals I cook from the things we buy and how we use the purchases we make! Maybe that would be really helpful? We’ll see what I can get done for you.

    For now, I hope you enjoy the breakdown of my trip to Winn Dixie this week. Here goes! 

    Here’s my Winn Dixie grocery list for this week. I like to mark it up and make notes all over it as you can see. I add in quantities I want to buy. I add in coupons I have. I highlight the ibotta rebate offers so that I remember to submit them. I add up about how much I will be spending to make sure I’ll be within my budget. Of course the starred items are the ones that are priced based on pound so I don’t take those into account when I add it all up, and I just know that these will add to my total a little bit.

    Here are some of the coupons I printed and clipped for this week’s shopping trip. I haven’t started buying the Sunday paper again yet, but I really need to.

    Here’s my car full of groceries! I was kid-free when I shopped so I was able to use my entire backseat to hold everything. (You can also see the freezer bags and the broccoli from my Sam’s trip I made right before this trip.)

    Here’s what all I bought today. I thought you might enjoy seeing it all spread out. It was definitely fun for me to set it all up this way to show you.

    And here’s the breakdown of today’s shopping trip!

    I bought…

    4 boxes of Kellogg’s Raisin Bran Crunch Cereal – B1G1 $4.29 ($2.14) x 2
    *I had a digital coupon loaded to my Rewards Card for $2/4.
    *These will definitely last us at least a couple weeks or more.

    2 boxes of Krusteaz Pancake Mix – B1G1 $2.89 ($1.44)
    *This should last us at least until they go on sale again in a month or so.

    2 boxes of Quaker Instant Grits – B1G1 $4.49 ($2.24)
    *I haven’t had grits in a really long time so I’m really excited about these. 🙂

    2 boxes of Lance sandwich crackers – B1G1 $3.29 ($1.64)
    *I got these to fill our snack box since it’s getting low. It wasn’t on my original grocery list, but it’s okay because they were on sale. These will be good to grab for on the go snacks like when we go grocery shopping next week!

    2 containers of Planter’s Peanuts – B1G1 $4.49 ($2.24)
    *This isn’t something we buy on a regular basis, but I got them to use for our favorite “Snickers Oatmeal” recipe. We can also eat them for snacks, and these should last us a good while!

    2 jars of Hormel bacon bits – $2 each x 2
    *I used a $1/2 coupon for these.

    2 containers of soft Philadelphia Cream Cheese – $2.50
    *I earned 100 SE rewards points for buying 2 of these, and I needed them for an upcoming recipe in a few weeks so I grabbed them now since they were on sale.

    4 cans of SE Grocers fruits – $1/each

    3 packages of Seasoning Blend – B2G1 = $3.18
    *I didn’t originally plan to buy these, but I saw the deal and decided to grab them. I love to always have these on hand for various recipes.

    2 packages of Dole Salad Mix – B1G1 = $4 ($2)

    Fresh Snap Beans – $1.49/lb = $4.10

    Fresh Strawberries – B1G1 $4.99 ($2.49)

    Fresh Plums – $1.99/lb = $2.47

    Fresh Zucchini – $1.49/lb = $2.19

    2 packages of Gorton’s fish fillets – B1G1 $6.99 ($3.49)

    3 lbs. of Butterball Ground Turkey – $3.50
    *I planned to buy 2 of these, but when I was in store I saw that one package had been marked down by $2 additional for a quick sale so I grabbed three instead. We’ll use the quick sale one first, and I can freeze the others to use later unless I’m planning a meal with them this week.
    *I used a $0.75/1 paper coupon of this and also a $0.75/1 digital coupon for this.

    1 lb. Butterball Turkey Sausage – $4.99
    *This was also marked down for a quick sale and savings of an additional $2 so I grabbed it too. My kids love sausage so I knew it would be a good buy for us.

    Pork Chop Ribeyes – B1G1 $9.44 ($4.72)

    Hillshire Farm Smoked Sausage – B1G1 $4.99 ($2.49)

    Ball Park Franks – B1G1 $3.99 ($1.99)
    *We’re planning to build a campfire soon with the kids as it’s on our Summer Bucket list, and I thought it would be fun to roast these over the fire.

    1 half gallon of Tru Moo Chocolate Milk – $2.50
    *I planned to get this anyway because one of my kids LOVES chocolate milk. It was marked down for a quick sale so I found the one with the latest date, and I knew it would be fine because my family will definitely have it gone by then anyway.

    2 pints of Halo Top – $4.50 x 2
    *My husband loves these so I got them as a treat for him. They weren’t necessarily “cheaper” but I earned 120 SE Rewards points by purchasing two of them. And this is one of those things we would run out and get if we have a craving anyway… so now we won’t have to. Totally worth it.
    *Let’s see if my husband actually reads my posts…. I hid these in the back of the freezer for him and haven’t told him yet. I’m waiting for a good time to let him in on my secret little purchase for him. 😉

    Tropicana Essentials Probiotic Orange Mango Drink – 10/$10
    *Did you know that if something says 10/$10 in a sale ad, you don’t actually have to buy 10?! It’s true. I’ve been craving orange juice lately, and so I grabbed this since it was also on sale to drink on the way home from my shopping trip. Fruits from all my labor and efforts! (And still better than the jumbo bakery cookies they’ll try to tempt me with at the register.)

    2 containers of Purex Laundry Detergent – B1G1 $4.99 ($2.49)

    2 boxes of SE grocers plastic spoons – $1.50 x 2
    *I earned 40 SE Rewards points for purchasing these. I like for the kids to grab and use these to eat their disposable yogurts or fruit cups with so that we don’t dirty up any extra dishes for those snack times. So, sadly we aren’t a “green” as we could be in this area…. but it’s one of my “mama conveniences”.

    2 packages of Quilted Northern Toilet Paper – B1G1 $4.99 ($2.49)

    Fresh Grapes – $2.49/lb = $5.90

    I’ll let you in on one of my secret little pleasures. It’s so fun, yall! When you start shopping sale cycles at a regular grocery store, you’re going to have to try this one too. They always try to ask me for my reward card first thing, but I never pull it out too quickly. Instead, I leave it in my purse and wallet tucked away until the end. I let them ring up ALL of my items, and I watch that number get really big. Today it was over $200! Seeing that number go up and up and up used to scare me, but now it totally THRILLS me!  (When that number goes up and up at Walmart, it’s a different story. Am I right?) But anyway. Let the cashier finish, and look at the big number. THEN they scan your loyalty rewards card, and all of your sale items register and the price drops way low. It’s super fun to see! And finally, you can hand over your additional coupons, and you can choose to use your rewards points balance for even more savings. It’s just really fun to see how much you are actually saving by shopping grocery sale cycles.

    Total – $126.54
    Coupons – $16.00
    Points Used – $5.26
    Final Total – $121.28
    Today I earned – 322 points + $3.75 in ibotta Rebates
    Today I saved – $102.68

    Ibotta App
    If you don’t already have or know about the Ibotta app, I’d like to share that with you. This app will give you rebates from purchases from TONS of stores. It doesn’t matter if you buy the item on sale or full price – whether you used a coupon or not. Chances are – you could (and should!) be getting rebates on many of the things you are already purchasing. Shopping online? Shopping in stores? Always check the ibotta app before you shop, and watch those rebates add up – which is money in your pocket later on. You can choose to put it on a giftcard or transfer it to your Paypal account.

    If you’d like to sign up for ibotta and earn your savings, here’s my referral link!

    This is my Rebate earnings from this particular Winn Dixie shopping trip!

    And this is my lifetime earnings. Do you SEE that amount?! This is money that I have been able to transfer to my Paypal account over time! It’s REAL money, and it’s been nice to have a little bonus cash, or what I like to call “Free Money” just from buying things I was already buying anyway.

    If you’d like to sign up for ibotta and earn your savings, here’s my referral link! 

    In my next posts I’ll be sharing with you the breakdown of my shopping trips to CVS and Sam’s Club!

    Whatever you do, Let’s make a Plan to be More Purposeful! 

    My Monthly Goals for August 2018

    After reviewing my yearly goals, here are the things I will be working on for the month of August… 

    Spiritual Goals:
    I’m finishing up the Seamless Bible Study by Angie Smith with Proverbs 31 Ministries this month, and next week I will begin the Medication study of Psalm 119 provided by Stone Soup for Five.

    Mothering/Family Goals:

    • Sign Lawson up for recreational football.
    • Family Trip to the book store for Lawson to pick out his new book as a reward for completing his Summer Reading Passports Program.
    • Family Trip to the Trampoline for Lawson’s second reward for completing his Summer Reading Passports Program.
    • Linkin has a special goal he is working towards for a prize too, but I won’t share it here. He will also benefit from Lawson reaching his goal, of course.
    • Linkin will continue working through his Raising Rockstars Preschool with me.
    • Layten will continue working through Tot Schools Printables Curriculum with me.
    • Things still left on our Summer Bucket List: Float the Creek, Kroc Center, Zoo, S’mores, Aquarium, Campfire, Bike Ride on a Trail, Hiking Adventure, Make pickles, Snow Boogers, and the Trampoline Park (Who knows if we’ll get to all of these – probably not, but we’ll try to get to as many as we can)

    Homeschooling Goals: 
    We have been doing “light schooling” this past month. We are about 20 days in right now, and we will be completing our “Summer Term” and taking a break week this month. That week will be reserved for field trips and fun things (right about the time when all of the public schoolers go back to school so we’ll have less crowds). We, introverts, plan these things accordingly. 😉

    After our Break Week, we will be adding in our Language Arts Curriculum on week 1, followed by Botany and Apologetics, which we go through slowly at our own pace. I’ll be posting in more detail about our homeschooling plans soon.

    My Personal Goals: Reading Plans
    Right now, I don’t know if I can really prioritize this as a goal, but I might try to start a new book if one grabs me. We’ll see. No definite plans as of now for this month.

    Marriage Goals:

    • Weekly Budget Meetings as a Couple to keep us on Track with our Goals
    • Weekly Quality Time Together at home
    • At Least One Date Night This Month
    • Cheer on Justin as he competes in the first, annual Anchor Games this month.
    • Work together on reaching goals set for opening the new CrossFit gym the first week in September. Exciting! 

      Health & Fitness Goals:
      Keep doing CrossFit, even if I have to modify and scale everything. Keep meal planning and having healthy meals readily accessible for me.

    Financial Goals:

    • Continue in the grocery store & drugstore game for saving money with our food, toiletries, & household purchases.
    • Continue with sinking funds & reaching goals there.
    • Prepare for Christmas. (Baby coming in December – I’ve gotta get on that!) Purchase or make at least one gift this month. Talk with family about holiday plans.

    Professional Goals:
    Post about our Family’s Core Values, Vision, Mission, and Slogan
    Post about my Grocery, Drugstore, and Sam’s Shopping Process
    Post about our Sinking Funds & Financial Goals
    Posts about our Homeschool Methods, Curricula, and Goals

    What goals will you be working on this month? If you’re just starting out, you can read my series on My Purposeful Planning and hopefully be inspired with one thing to begin with and how to reach that one goal, which will only lead you to want to achieve more.

    Whatever you do, Let’s go make a plan to be purposeful! 

    My Monthly Goals for July: An Update


    After reviewing my yearly goals, here are the things I  worked on for the month of July… 

    Spiritual Goals:
    I am currently finishing up week six of Proverbs 31 Ministries’ online Bible Study of Seamless by Angie Smith. I missed this small group Bible Study when a group from our campus did it, but I heard it was phenomenal. So, when I got the email that it was going to be available as an online study, I ordered the book and jumped on board! This study has been everything I heard it was and more! I’ve gained so much insight of little tidbits and things that just really came together for me in a new light through this study. I feel like it has even equipped me to be a better Bible teacher to my children as I homeschool them, and for that I’m really excited.

    Mothering/Family Goals:

    • Lawson has still been working through his Summer Reading Passports Program and working toward his goals of earning a new book from the book store and a family trip to the Kroc Center. He has worked hard, and I’m glad that this program has kept him reading throughout the Summer so he’s definitely going to earn his rewards. Although, he has decided that he’d rather take a family trip to the trampoline park, so Daddy will definitely have to accompany us for this one. No way this pregnant mama will be doing any jumping right now. 😉
    • Linkin has been working through his Raising Rockstars Preschool Curriculum with me. We’ve completed 5 weeks of it now. (We’re just going through it slowly. He’s not real keen on doing the school thing just yet.) I’m proud to say that he’s been doing much better with having a good attitude and trying his best each day. It’s really all I ask him for, and he’s learned his Bible verses. I’m a proud mama.
    • Layten still gets read to daily, and she REALLY wanted to do school with us. Although it wasn’t it the plans, we started her with the Tot School Printables Curriculum this month, and she has LOVED it! She loves the intentional time with Mama as she gets to color and learn new words. She’s doing fabulous with it! She has also successfully weaned from the pacifier this month! My little girl is growing up!
    • Things still left on our Summer Bucket List: Float the Creek, Kroc Center, Zoo, Aquarium, Campfire, Bike Ride on a Trail, Hiking Adventure, Make pickles, Snow Boogers, and now The Trampoline Park (Who knows if we’ll get to all of these – probably not, but we’ll try to get to as many as we can)

    Homeschooling Goals: 
    We started back to school this month with some light schooling. Why, you ask?
    Well for one, we are going to have a newborn in December and I know we will be taking some time off for that so we need to get a head start so we can have a break next Summer. Our requirement is 180 days so we need to try our best to meet that, even if it means starting early. I just know myself and that we will definitely want to take a mid-year break, especially to get used to having a new member in our family. And we pretty much always start in July, because I get excited to get to all the plans I’ve made. 😉
    Second, we really all do well with having a routine. We like to have fun, but our normal schedule and routine is good for us, so we do what we want.
    Third, I did say “light schooling” which means we started with our character study of Knight Training, me Reading Aloud to them, and our Memory Work… but other than that we didn’t do too much more than our current Summer Reading Program and Fun Summer Activities we have planned. I did end up adding in some light Math one week, and we started our new Bible Curriculum just so we could get our feet wet there.

    My Personal Goals: Reading Plans
    One of my goals is to read 12 books this year, and I had planned to finish up two more this month. However, I totally bombed this one. As Jon Acuff says in his book Finish, “You only have two options right now. Attempt more than is humanly possible and fail OR choose what to bomb and succeed at a goal that matters.” Wise words. So this was the area that I bombed this month, and I am not ashamed at all to say that.

    Marriage Goals:
    We have had intentional time together at home this month in the form of mini Netflix binges in between family activities… we had some time to go on a brief kayak trip together, a few budget meetings, one lunch date out, and at least two of what we’ll call “Family Dates” where we all went out to eat as a family this month.  We led a family small group together at church (which was incredible, by the way). This really helped us to have some really intentional conversations about our vision for our family, and how to get us there. Justin and I have both been more intentional in the past couple of years, but it was really good to bring those ideas together and let God give us a mission and a vision for our family. I’ll share those with you soon.

    Health & Fitness Goals:
    My goal here was to keep doing CrossFit, even if I have to modify and scale everything… to work harder at meal planning and prepping to have healthy meals readily accessible to me. I have not been perfect (though I’m not striving for perfection so that’s okay), but I feel like I’ve been pretty successful at this goal.

    Financial Goals:

    • My goal was to continue in the grocery store & drugstore game for saving money with our food, toiletries, & household purchases. This has helped us SO MUCH! I have cut our grocery spending by more than half in the past two months! I will be sharing more about this soon.
    • I wanted to work on starting some sinking funds, and I have done that this month as well. I actually wrote out our “tentative” budget for each pay period through the end of the year, complete with sinking funds. This is really going to help us to be intentional with our finances and reach some much-needed goals.
    • I wanted to start preparing for Christmas. (Baby coming in December – I’ve gotta get on that!) I have purchased one gift this month to put up for Christmas, as well as spent time making several gifts. Aren’t handmade gifts the best, anyway? (I sure hope so, because that’s what our budget calls for, and I’m thankful that I have the time to allow me to spend on it, even though the money I’d like to spend is not always there.)
    • Another possible goal was to sell our house, maybe? We didn’t achieve this one, although I haven’t really done any work to sell it either. I’m kind of torn at the moment as to what to do here…. what God wants from us now. We don’t have any clear direction as of now, so we are just sitting and waiting. (We’re used to that, so it’s totally okay.) When we first put our house up for sale, we had no idea that we would be having a baby this year. You would think that might motivate us to sell it quicker and move into a new house with more space, but that’s not our goal at all. Our goal was actually to downsize and temporarily live with family and save money. Now I’m finding that I’m really content in our home, and I’m just rearranging, getting rid of clutter, and making small changes to make it into what I need it to be in order to work for us.

    Professional Goals:
    Purposeful Planning Tips & Strategies Series for the month of July… I posted a few of these, though I’ve also been working on some larger posts, such as my grocery and drugstore shopping and meal planning process and to update you about our sinking funds and our goals with that.

    What else We’ve Been Up to this Summer: 

    • We took a family trip to Lynn Meadows Discovery Center.
    • We made S’mores at home.
    • We dressed like cows for free Chicken at Chick-fil-A for Cow Appreciation Day.
    • We participated in Serve Day with our church.
    • We had a play date at Perk Beach.
    • We went swimming and boating at Flint Creek several times.
    • We got to see our new baby via Ultrasound this month. (And I did not peek to see the gender.)

    And that’s all for now… I’ll be posting soon about my goals for the month of August!

    Whatever you do, Let’s go make a plan to be purposeful!